"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm forced to work with girls on my sales team...

_sideways_

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I've learned that they flirt and stuff and negate to mention boy friends.. Obviously I don't react.

But what is up?

Flirt while you can and then your friend accidentally spills the beans of a boy friend?

Is this a hot guy problem and I don't find myself to be that hot?

Or like a cheating situation in the making? Branch swing?

Or something off the wall?

Anybody?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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daddymonsterpoodle

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Women like to flirt. Maybe you are hotter than you realise although you are the only guy on the team.
Flirt back. It's fun. Don't take it further because it will make your life hell and jeopardise your job.

If they mention boyfriends, don't give a f-ck. They may be seeing how you react, do you get butthurt or not. Laugh it off, shrug, say what a lucky guy he is, tease her about how patient he must be..etc.
Enjoy it.
 

wifehunter

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I've learned that they flirt and stuff and negate to mention boy friends.. Obviously I don't react.

But what is up?

Flirt while you can and then your friend accidentally spills the beans of a boy friend?

Is this a hot guy problem and I don't find myself to be that hot?

Or like a cheating situation in the making? Branch swing?

Or something off the wall?

Anybody?
Her friend may be competing.. Could be an imaginary boyfriend? Yes, they'll lie to look better. Or maybe, she does have a boyfriend. Big deal, they are not married. If it is a serious LTR, she wouldn't be flirting.

Show interest, then back off and see what happens. This is good opportunity to apply cognitive dissonance aka walking away without physically walking away.
 

TheFixer14

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Sounds like you are over thinking things. You don't need to break down everything that you do with women.
 

Champ Slice

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I don't mind banging an employee who works for the same company and building as you. But somebody on your team? That is playing with fire IMO.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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El Payaso

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A room full of women with one guy is sure to start an attention competition. A woman desires attention almost more than oxygen. It is built in, genetic, and unchangeable.
LOL.
 

Champ Slice

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Women salespeople make a living off making male customers think they have a chance in hell of fvcking them if they buy the crap they are peddling. The hotter they are, the more money they make.
THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS!!!!!

X100.

I don't hire women for my sales staff unless they are absolute knockouts. Unfortunately I don't get to have fun with them. On the bright side that commission is amazing.
 

marmel75

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You are at work...joke and tease them like they are your little sister, all of them...they will eat it up and you will be a topic of conversation amongst them...trust me.
 
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