"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm forced to work with girls on my sales team...

_sideways_

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I've learned that they flirt and stuff and negate to mention boy friends.. Obviously I don't react.

But what is up?

Flirt while you can and then your friend accidentally spills the beans of a boy friend?

Is this a hot guy problem and I don't find myself to be that hot?

Or like a cheating situation in the making? Branch swing?

Or something off the wall?

Anybody?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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daddymonsterpoodle

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Women like to flirt. Maybe you are hotter than you realise although you are the only guy on the team.
Flirt back. It's fun. Don't take it further because it will make your life hell and jeopardise your job.

If they mention boyfriends, don't give a f-ck. They may be seeing how you react, do you get butthurt or not. Laugh it off, shrug, say what a lucky guy he is, tease her about how patient he must be..etc.
Enjoy it.
 

wifehunter

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I've learned that they flirt and stuff and negate to mention boy friends.. Obviously I don't react.

But what is up?

Flirt while you can and then your friend accidentally spills the beans of a boy friend?

Is this a hot guy problem and I don't find myself to be that hot?

Or like a cheating situation in the making? Branch swing?

Or something off the wall?

Anybody?
Her friend may be competing.. Could be an imaginary boyfriend? Yes, they'll lie to look better. Or maybe, she does have a boyfriend. Big deal, they are not married. If it is a serious LTR, she wouldn't be flirting.

Show interest, then back off and see what happens. This is good opportunity to apply cognitive dissonance aka walking away without physically walking away.
 

TheFixer14

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Sounds like you are over thinking things. You don't need to break down everything that you do with women.
 

Champ Slice

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I don't mind banging an employee who works for the same company and building as you. But somebody on your team? That is playing with fire IMO.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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El Payaso

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A room full of women with one guy is sure to start an attention competition. A woman desires attention almost more than oxygen. It is built in, genetic, and unchangeable.
LOL.
 

Champ Slice

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Women salespeople make a living off making male customers think they have a chance in hell of fvcking them if they buy the crap they are peddling. The hotter they are, the more money they make.
THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS!!!!!

X100.

I don't hire women for my sales staff unless they are absolute knockouts. Unfortunately I don't get to have fun with them. On the bright side that commission is amazing.
 

marmel75

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You are at work...joke and tease them like they are your little sister, all of them...they will eat it up and you will be a topic of conversation amongst them...trust me.
 
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