"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I'm forced to work with girls on my sales team...

_sideways_

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I've learned that they flirt and stuff and negate to mention boy friends.. Obviously I don't react.

But what is up?

Flirt while you can and then your friend accidentally spills the beans of a boy friend?

Is this a hot guy problem and I don't find myself to be that hot?

Or like a cheating situation in the making? Branch swing?

Or something off the wall?

Anybody?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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daddymonsterpoodle

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Women like to flirt. Maybe you are hotter than you realise although you are the only guy on the team.
Flirt back. It's fun. Don't take it further because it will make your life hell and jeopardise your job.

If they mention boyfriends, don't give a f-ck. They may be seeing how you react, do you get butthurt or not. Laugh it off, shrug, say what a lucky guy he is, tease her about how patient he must be..etc.
Enjoy it.
 

wifehunter

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I've learned that they flirt and stuff and negate to mention boy friends.. Obviously I don't react.

But what is up?

Flirt while you can and then your friend accidentally spills the beans of a boy friend?

Is this a hot guy problem and I don't find myself to be that hot?

Or like a cheating situation in the making? Branch swing?

Or something off the wall?

Anybody?
Her friend may be competing.. Could be an imaginary boyfriend? Yes, they'll lie to look better. Or maybe, she does have a boyfriend. Big deal, they are not married. If it is a serious LTR, she wouldn't be flirting.

Show interest, then back off and see what happens. This is good opportunity to apply cognitive dissonance aka walking away without physically walking away.
 

TheFixer14

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Sounds like you are over thinking things. You don't need to break down everything that you do with women.
 

Champ Slice

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I don't mind banging an employee who works for the same company and building as you. But somebody on your team? That is playing with fire IMO.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A room full of women with one guy is sure to start an attention competition. A woman desires attention almost more than oxygen. It is built in, genetic, and unchangeable.
LOL.
 

Champ Slice

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Women salespeople make a living off making male customers think they have a chance in hell of fvcking them if they buy the crap they are peddling. The hotter they are, the more money they make.
THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS!!!!!

X100.

I don't hire women for my sales staff unless they are absolute knockouts. Unfortunately I don't get to have fun with them. On the bright side that commission is amazing.
 

marmel75

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You are at work...joke and tease them like they are your little sister, all of them...they will eat it up and you will be a topic of conversation amongst them...trust me.
 
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