"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Okay I had a good first lunch date with this chick but now I have NO idea what to talk about from now on. I'm doing everything very good except I'm running out of things to talk about. I've read all the Conversation topics in the Bible but there still is something to be desired.

What are some daring questions that I could ask that could make me stand out from everyone else. Also what are some things I could do that make me stand out.

I'm sure even the best run out of things to say but they usually have the girl so whipped it doesn't matter.

Any tips I'd greatly appreciate.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"You should give me your number so we can hang out some time" Seems pretty daring to me, although its not a question... hmmm....

Don't spend too much time with her or you'll find yourself deep in the friends zone.
 
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Was the date good? Did you give her a kiss?

Besides all that, if you can't maintain a conversation with her, maybe you guys just don't click. She should be making an effort to keep the conversation going also. If you get into those dreaded silences, it shouldn't be your fault, she isn't contributing. Just look at how you communicate well with some people, if you can't do that with this chick, it just isn't going to work out very well.
 
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Don't worry about what you're talking about as long as you're enjoying each other's company. What do you talk about when you chill with your friends? Nothing in particular... just enjoy yourself.
 
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read the conversation section of the bible, more specifically the post by xxblitz44 I think it's called "Seducing conversation" it talks about a lot of SS related things to bring in that really sets you apart. Don't fret it too much man, if you are confident things should work themselves out, how else do people stay married for 40+ years?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Keep her talking. Girls love talking about feelings, ask them a question on it and they'll ramble for hours.

Try and be funny, but don't try to make a joke out of everything.

Good luck.
 
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Ask questions about her.
Learn how to role play.
Accuse her of things, playfully.(might not try this unless you understand the concept.)
Create akward silences on purpose so if you a real one you can just laugh at her.
 
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