"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Okay I had a good first lunch date with this chick but now I have NO idea what to talk about from now on. I'm doing everything very good except I'm running out of things to talk about. I've read all the Conversation topics in the Bible but there still is something to be desired.

What are some daring questions that I could ask that could make me stand out from everyone else. Also what are some things I could do that make me stand out.

I'm sure even the best run out of things to say but they usually have the girl so whipped it doesn't matter.

Any tips I'd greatly appreciate.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"You should give me your number so we can hang out some time" Seems pretty daring to me, although its not a question... hmmm....

Don't spend too much time with her or you'll find yourself deep in the friends zone.
 
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Was the date good? Did you give her a kiss?

Besides all that, if you can't maintain a conversation with her, maybe you guys just don't click. She should be making an effort to keep the conversation going also. If you get into those dreaded silences, it shouldn't be your fault, she isn't contributing. Just look at how you communicate well with some people, if you can't do that with this chick, it just isn't going to work out very well.
 
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Don't worry about what you're talking about as long as you're enjoying each other's company. What do you talk about when you chill with your friends? Nothing in particular... just enjoy yourself.
 
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read the conversation section of the bible, more specifically the post by xxblitz44 I think it's called "Seducing conversation" it talks about a lot of SS related things to bring in that really sets you apart. Don't fret it too much man, if you are confident things should work themselves out, how else do people stay married for 40+ years?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Keep her talking. Girls love talking about feelings, ask them a question on it and they'll ramble for hours.

Try and be funny, but don't try to make a joke out of everything.

Good luck.
 
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Ask questions about her.
Learn how to role play.
Accuse her of things, playfully.(might not try this unless you understand the concept.)
Create akward silences on purpose so if you a real one you can just laugh at her.
 
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