"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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There's a new feature on pof where you can indicate whether you want to meet the person...well I've had my new profile up since Thanksgiving and have got 9 women who indicated they wanted to meet me...all UG4 or below.

The funny part is, in one my pics I have my arms around a HB9/10. Do they think, ok he'll lower his standards and date me? I mean are they blind? I'm a well dressed 7...why would I want an UG3 or 4?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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confusedstate said:
There's a new feature on pof where you can indicate whether you want to meet the person...well I've had my new profile up since Thanksgiving and have got 9 women who indicated they wanted to meet me...all UG4 or below.

The funny part is, in one my pics I have my arms around a HB9/10. Do they think, ok he'll lower his standards and date me? I mean are they blind? I'm a well dressed 7...why would I want an UG3 or 4?
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Beggers can't be choosers my friend.
Start iniating conversations or interest with good looking women then, online dating is all about odds, for every 100 people you show interest in only 4 or 5 may want to meet.
 
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confusedstate said:
Do they think, ok he'll lower his standards and date me? I mean are they blind? I'm a well dressed 7...why would I want an UG3 or 4?
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Fuck. And here I thought I had a huge ego! :D

Dude, unless you're a natural and/or have very good game, you need these average-looking women for practice.
 
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Maybe someday when you're an old man with a wrinkly face some young female will post on a forum how this "UG5 old man was hitting on me". Man be forgiving for christ's sake and focus your efforts on what you want, who cares if they are messaging you, why complain here?

I totally agree with practice...learn to walk before we run...and learn to run before we're jumping hurdles.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I know some people have high standards, including myself but a ugs and hbs vagina is the same with the light cut off and 6 bottles of coronas
 
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Ah, that's a new feature is it? I just signed up to POF a short while ago and assumed it had always been there. The really retarded thing about that particular feature is the fact that messaging is free so it's completely redundant.

If you like someone's pics and profile, you'd just message someone straight up right, that would seem logical. Not if you're completely passive and have nothing interesting to say, or if you're so accustomed to your comfortable pedestal you have to 'trick' a guy into initiating, lol.
 
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confusedstate said:
There's a new feature on pof where you can indicate whether you want to meet the person...well I've had my new profile up since Thanksgiving and have got 9 women who indicated they wanted to meet me...all UG4 or below.

The funny part is, in one my pics I have my arms around a HB9/10. Do they think, ok he'll lower his standards and date me? I mean are they blind? I'm a well dressed 7...why would I want an UG3 or 4?
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LOL. Bro it doesn't matter what you want, it matters how you sell what you have NOW. Just because I threw for 27 touchdowns in senior year doesn't mean I can be quarterback for the NE Patriots this Sunday.

Girls don't care that 3 months ago you slept with a Jessica Alba lookalike, girls care what you can do for them NOW. You have sell yourself in the present, not what you did back when. If you can't sell yourself, you'll get the appropriate responses.
 
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