"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm disgusted

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There's a new feature on pof where you can indicate whether you want to meet the person...well I've had my new profile up since Thanksgiving and have got 9 women who indicated they wanted to meet me...all UG4 or below.

The funny part is, in one my pics I have my arms around a HB9/10. Do they think, ok he'll lower his standards and date me? I mean are they blind? I'm a well dressed 7...why would I want an UG3 or 4?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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confusedstate said:
There's a new feature on pof where you can indicate whether you want to meet the person...well I've had my new profile up since Thanksgiving and have got 9 women who indicated they wanted to meet me...all UG4 or below.

The funny part is, in one my pics I have my arms around a HB9/10. Do they think, ok he'll lower his standards and date me? I mean are they blind? I'm a well dressed 7...why would I want an UG3 or 4?
Beggers can't be choosers my friend.
Start iniating conversations or interest with good looking women then, online dating is all about odds, for every 100 people you show interest in only 4 or 5 may want to meet.
 

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confusedstate said:
Do they think, ok he'll lower his standards and date me? I mean are they blind? I'm a well dressed 7...why would I want an UG3 or 4?
Fuck. And here I thought I had a huge ego! :D

Dude, unless you're a natural and/or have very good game, you need these average-looking women for practice.
 

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Maybe someday when you're an old man with a wrinkly face some young female will post on a forum how this "UG5 old man was hitting on me". Man be forgiving for christ's sake and focus your efforts on what you want, who cares if they are messaging you, why complain here?

I totally agree with practice...learn to walk before we run...and learn to run before we're jumping hurdles.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I know some people have high standards, including myself but a ugs and hbs vagina is the same with the light cut off and 6 bottles of coronas
 

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Ah, that's a new feature is it? I just signed up to POF a short while ago and assumed it had always been there. The really retarded thing about that particular feature is the fact that messaging is free so it's completely redundant.

If you like someone's pics and profile, you'd just message someone straight up right, that would seem logical. Not if you're completely passive and have nothing interesting to say, or if you're so accustomed to your comfortable pedestal you have to 'trick' a guy into initiating, lol.
 

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confusedstate said:
There's a new feature on pof where you can indicate whether you want to meet the person...well I've had my new profile up since Thanksgiving and have got 9 women who indicated they wanted to meet me...all UG4 or below.

The funny part is, in one my pics I have my arms around a HB9/10. Do they think, ok he'll lower his standards and date me? I mean are they blind? I'm a well dressed 7...why would I want an UG3 or 4?
LOL. Bro it doesn't matter what you want, it matters how you sell what you have NOW. Just because I threw for 27 touchdowns in senior year doesn't mean I can be quarterback for the NE Patriots this Sunday.

Girls don't care that 3 months ago you slept with a Jessica Alba lookalike, girls care what you can do for them NOW. You have sell yourself in the present, not what you did back when. If you can't sell yourself, you'll get the appropriate responses.
 
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