"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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There's a new feature on pof where you can indicate whether you want to meet the person...well I've had my new profile up since Thanksgiving and have got 9 women who indicated they wanted to meet me...all UG4 or below.

The funny part is, in one my pics I have my arms around a HB9/10. Do they think, ok he'll lower his standards and date me? I mean are they blind? I'm a well dressed 7...why would I want an UG3 or 4?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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confusedstate said:
There's a new feature on pof where you can indicate whether you want to meet the person...well I've had my new profile up since Thanksgiving and have got 9 women who indicated they wanted to meet me...all UG4 or below.

The funny part is, in one my pics I have my arms around a HB9/10. Do they think, ok he'll lower his standards and date me? I mean are they blind? I'm a well dressed 7...why would I want an UG3 or 4?
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Beggers can't be choosers my friend.
Start iniating conversations or interest with good looking women then, online dating is all about odds, for every 100 people you show interest in only 4 or 5 may want to meet.
 
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confusedstate said:
Do they think, ok he'll lower his standards and date me? I mean are they blind? I'm a well dressed 7...why would I want an UG3 or 4?
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Fuck. And here I thought I had a huge ego! :D

Dude, unless you're a natural and/or have very good game, you need these average-looking women for practice.
 
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Maybe someday when you're an old man with a wrinkly face some young female will post on a forum how this "UG5 old man was hitting on me". Man be forgiving for christ's sake and focus your efforts on what you want, who cares if they are messaging you, why complain here?

I totally agree with practice...learn to walk before we run...and learn to run before we're jumping hurdles.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I know some people have high standards, including myself but a ugs and hbs vagina is the same with the light cut off and 6 bottles of coronas
 
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Ah, that's a new feature is it? I just signed up to POF a short while ago and assumed it had always been there. The really retarded thing about that particular feature is the fact that messaging is free so it's completely redundant.

If you like someone's pics and profile, you'd just message someone straight up right, that would seem logical. Not if you're completely passive and have nothing interesting to say, or if you're so accustomed to your comfortable pedestal you have to 'trick' a guy into initiating, lol.
 
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confusedstate said:
There's a new feature on pof where you can indicate whether you want to meet the person...well I've had my new profile up since Thanksgiving and have got 9 women who indicated they wanted to meet me...all UG4 or below.

The funny part is, in one my pics I have my arms around a HB9/10. Do they think, ok he'll lower his standards and date me? I mean are they blind? I'm a well dressed 7...why would I want an UG3 or 4?
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LOL. Bro it doesn't matter what you want, it matters how you sell what you have NOW. Just because I threw for 27 touchdowns in senior year doesn't mean I can be quarterback for the NE Patriots this Sunday.

Girls don't care that 3 months ago you slept with a Jessica Alba lookalike, girls care what you can do for them NOW. You have sell yourself in the present, not what you did back when. If you can't sell yourself, you'll get the appropriate responses.
 
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