"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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There's a new feature on pof where you can indicate whether you want to meet the person...well I've had my new profile up since Thanksgiving and have got 9 women who indicated they wanted to meet me...all UG4 or below.

The funny part is, in one my pics I have my arms around a HB9/10. Do they think, ok he'll lower his standards and date me? I mean are they blind? I'm a well dressed 7...why would I want an UG3 or 4?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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confusedstate said:
There's a new feature on pof where you can indicate whether you want to meet the person...well I've had my new profile up since Thanksgiving and have got 9 women who indicated they wanted to meet me...all UG4 or below.

The funny part is, in one my pics I have my arms around a HB9/10. Do they think, ok he'll lower his standards and date me? I mean are they blind? I'm a well dressed 7...why would I want an UG3 or 4?
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Beggers can't be choosers my friend.
Start iniating conversations or interest with good looking women then, online dating is all about odds, for every 100 people you show interest in only 4 or 5 may want to meet.
 
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confusedstate said:
Do they think, ok he'll lower his standards and date me? I mean are they blind? I'm a well dressed 7...why would I want an UG3 or 4?
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Fuck. And here I thought I had a huge ego! :D

Dude, unless you're a natural and/or have very good game, you need these average-looking women for practice.
 
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Maybe someday when you're an old man with a wrinkly face some young female will post on a forum how this "UG5 old man was hitting on me". Man be forgiving for christ's sake and focus your efforts on what you want, who cares if they are messaging you, why complain here?

I totally agree with practice...learn to walk before we run...and learn to run before we're jumping hurdles.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I know some people have high standards, including myself but a ugs and hbs vagina is the same with the light cut off and 6 bottles of coronas
 
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Ah, that's a new feature is it? I just signed up to POF a short while ago and assumed it had always been there. The really retarded thing about that particular feature is the fact that messaging is free so it's completely redundant.

If you like someone's pics and profile, you'd just message someone straight up right, that would seem logical. Not if you're completely passive and have nothing interesting to say, or if you're so accustomed to your comfortable pedestal you have to 'trick' a guy into initiating, lol.
 
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confusedstate said:
There's a new feature on pof where you can indicate whether you want to meet the person...well I've had my new profile up since Thanksgiving and have got 9 women who indicated they wanted to meet me...all UG4 or below.

The funny part is, in one my pics I have my arms around a HB9/10. Do they think, ok he'll lower his standards and date me? I mean are they blind? I'm a well dressed 7...why would I want an UG3 or 4?
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LOL. Bro it doesn't matter what you want, it matters how you sell what you have NOW. Just because I threw for 27 touchdowns in senior year doesn't mean I can be quarterback for the NE Patriots this Sunday.

Girls don't care that 3 months ago you slept with a Jessica Alba lookalike, girls care what you can do for them NOW. You have sell yourself in the present, not what you did back when. If you can't sell yourself, you'll get the appropriate responses.
 
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