"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm confused.

Adrian

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alright... If a girl constantly touches you, compliments you every now and then, Manages to make some eye contact with you etc. than that means she has good interest level with you. She has a boyfriend that she has known for a very short period of time but never mentions this person to you. She seems happy and surprised to receive your phone calls but never returns them back. I think I've been receiving alot of mixed signals here and I really don't know what to do. I can just easily walk away and become a challenge (Which I've done once before) but I think I've blown my chances right after the girl throws herself at me (Damn Myself). Is making myself a challenge again going to have any effect? I really don't know what to do since I think I've been recieving mixed signals.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If she was interested in you she would be YOUR g/f and not another dude's!! She is toying with you - pay her no mind until she makes it plain that she is looking for someone else!!
 

rgeere

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She is basically another one of those girls who likes to inflate her self-absorbed ego and esteeme by sucking the innocent life out of gullible AFCs. Everything she has done was an illusion to this, and she has no intention of ever being romantic with you.

Take control and tell the witch to give in or heave out, or just quit talking to her period. I had to learn this fact the hard way, but you don't have to learn the hard way if you take my advice.

By the way, there are women who arn't like these. Activelly seek them out and avoid atmospheres where these type of women hang out most often.
 

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I get attention like compliments, hugs and kisses on the check all the time from female friends but it's just being friendly thats all it is.
It's when they want to hold hands and make out.... then you're in!
She is just being friendly to you. She only sees you as a friend, spend time working on another girl thats available.
 
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