"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Im beta as hell when Im alone.

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SpazzAttackk

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Seriously, I can throw some pretty good game out when im out and about doing my thing. Pull here, pull there everywhere a pull pull. I work hard, big build, natural leader. But im so out of touch with LTRs that I cant even get one started. I think ive posted this before here.

Ill admit, I have many a nights where I AFC out and go into beta mode. We all have those nights, I dont care how alpha you are. But Im starting to get back into the booze. Ive had addictions at a young age, and the lonliness is bringing it all back, I dont even wanna use that as an excuse but hey.

See? Completely beta second paragraph. Its disgusting.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Being alpha is like being rich, famous, or anything else women like. It will help you get a woman, but it has very little to do with keeping one.
 
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Do not get hung up on the whole Alpha/Beta thing and you will be ok
 
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Being "alpha" doesn't mean you're not human and don't have moments of weakness, sadness, depression, etc.

There seems to be a misconception among many men that being "alpha" is like being come kind of Superman. That's not what it means.

Think of any man you consider alpha. You think they've never been down? You think they've never cried? I like to use Tony Soprano as a good example (even though he is fictional). We see many times in The Sopranos where Tony gets sad, depressed or has other moments of weakness.

We are all human. :up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do not drink alone if you had problems in the past.

I'm guessing that you're drinking to cope and pass times of loneliness. Spend that free time to improve your life.

-Get certifications for your career
-Meetup.com
-Read books (PUA, investments, self-motivation, etc.)
-Decorate your place
-Keep up to date with events
-Take a client out

Do things that will increase what you have to offer.
 
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