"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Im beta as hell when Im alone.

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SpazzAttackk

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Seriously, I can throw some pretty good game out when im out and about doing my thing. Pull here, pull there everywhere a pull pull. I work hard, big build, natural leader. But im so out of touch with LTRs that I cant even get one started. I think ive posted this before here.

Ill admit, I have many a nights where I AFC out and go into beta mode. We all have those nights, I dont care how alpha you are. But Im starting to get back into the booze. Ive had addictions at a young age, and the lonliness is bringing it all back, I dont even wanna use that as an excuse but hey.

See? Completely beta second paragraph. Its disgusting.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Being alpha is like being rich, famous, or anything else women like. It will help you get a woman, but it has very little to do with keeping one.
 
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Do not get hung up on the whole Alpha/Beta thing and you will be ok
 
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Being "alpha" doesn't mean you're not human and don't have moments of weakness, sadness, depression, etc.

There seems to be a misconception among many men that being "alpha" is like being come kind of Superman. That's not what it means.

Think of any man you consider alpha. You think they've never been down? You think they've never cried? I like to use Tony Soprano as a good example (even though he is fictional). We see many times in The Sopranos where Tony gets sad, depressed or has other moments of weakness.

We are all human. :up:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Do not drink alone if you had problems in the past.

I'm guessing that you're drinking to cope and pass times of loneliness. Spend that free time to improve your life.

-Get certifications for your career
-Meetup.com
-Read books (PUA, investments, self-motivation, etc.)
-Decorate your place
-Keep up to date with events
-Take a client out

Do things that will increase what you have to offer.
 
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