You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
We will have to agree to disagree on how the forum is moderated. LA, by like count you are the second most popular poster on SS right now. I happen to like your posts a lot myself. Stay on the high road and don't start following the same path as other popular posters have. If BigDave gets under your skin just put him on ignore,carry on, and stay the course as you were.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Oh look who decided to show up when nothing is going on......you're like a cop who shows up 40 minutes after the crime, do You're job and get rid of posters who don't give advice or help others or contribute anything to this forum.......
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Chi Town im sure you get around. Have you ever had some of the bytches conspire to "swag Jack" you. It means being black balled by a wide group in attempt to kill your influence and swag.
If someone is violating the forum rules, use the “report” button to call the cops. But just remember, Just because you don’t like a post doesn’t mean it’s against the form rules.
I'm sure they have tried, I know I have had girls purposely ignore me in a attempt to "knock me down a notch" or not wanting to boost my ego....i notice it very quickly
Snitches get stitches, B! @Chi Town lmao jp
lol Sometimes on the street they get stitches, but not here. All reports are anonymous as only moderators can see who reports who.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
It's against the rules to not give advice?
Not at all, but the ones who are on here just sulking up attention without offering anything useful to other posters don't need to be here, I see you contributing to the forum all the time, doesn't necessarily have to be advice but you offer things to the forum......
This right here is herd mentality.
That explains why you go at LA so much instead of people like me huh?
LA doesn't get anything from me nowadays.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.