"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Im back in South Texas, here’s some pics of my flights home

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Yep Im back for a mini vacation and enjoying Western culture for the holidays lol. It was a long trip back man…13 hour flight with some other BS. But anyways, already got my Tinder with several likes so that’s saying something, of course some are a little overweight but there still cute and Latina so that’s fine with me! lol In the meanwhile, Im gonna do some skateboarding, go to the beach because it’s still spring weather here and enjoy a tasty diverse cuisines of many cultures because this is the US of A after all.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wow Im getting some matches out here on Tinder, of course it’s not the type of women I like compared to South East Asia where there slender and petite. But Id take a faithful 5 or 6 over a Hot cheating slvt. I guess it’s my pics showing that Im a social guy with a life and connected to the city or a city. This is great, maybe I can end up on a date out here.
 

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I hope I played a role in influencing you to come and live in United States. You've seen it for yourself, rest of the world is about 80 years behind. It might up somewhat up-to-date in spots, but you leave those spots and it's back to 1960's.
 

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Not sure what the point is if you aren't planning to fvck any of them.

I won’t lie, my dating style is based on my faith plus Im after experiences, just fun friendly encounters over a cup of Joe. Theres a lot of advantages with this approach if you look at it, for one you avoid stds, and you avoid getting emotional and infatuated way too fast and you can usually end it on good terms if you’re not compatible.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I won’t lie, my dating style is based on my faith plus Im after experiences, just fun friendly encounters over a cup of Joe. Theres a lot of advantages with this approach if you look at it, for one you avoid stds, and you avoid getting emotional and infatuated way too fast and you can usually end it on good terms if you’re not compatible.
Sounds like you are selling yourself a bill of goods.

Also, why are you using a hookup app to waste women's time with nonsense?
 

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Little bro. Woman are expecting sex from you and you are boring them with garbage religious bull ****. Religion is trash, it's made up bull. When our ancestors hunted mammoth there was many Gods, represented by mother nature. Monotheistic crap only happened much later circa around 1400 B.C. with Jews. We can date them precisely via language and their dislike of pork, right around that time pork became unpopular. If Jewish faith was any older they'd be eating pork for kwanza.

In other words, God is a made up concept. There is no God.

Purpose for God concept was originally morality. Extend of evolution. Prior choices like not eating your babies made tribes succeed. In new world where people lived in communities and gathered agricultural goods, stealing could lead to famine and people dying. Thus the God concept, so that people don't steel resources that entire community gathered.

Russians made-up the one God concept, just kidding, Proto-Indo Europeans did, ancestors of all Europeans, from Volga-Don region in Russia. They invented the wheel and populated entire Europe, or more precisely took over the Europe, because Europe was somewhat occupied by Pre Proto-Indo Europeans. Later they created the Greek and Roman empires. In Russian steppe there isn't many features. The one and only prominent feature is the sky. Thus the God lives in the sky. Back then there was several Gods living in the in the sky though. Monotheistic crap happened a bit later. But this was progression from praying to mammoth God to praying to God in the sky.

Get it now?
 
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Prior to Proto-Indo Europeans there was another group, from which they descended, living 25 kilo years ago right around Southern Ural mountains. Before them their ancestors, which also migrated to North America. They pre date the invention of monotheism so Indians in America prayed to many Gods of nature. Kind of stuck in hunting mammoth days.

As a result with advent of agriculture they had human sacrifice and total immorality. They were unable to develop lasting civilizations.

This simple concept of God living in the sky and later the concept of one God, advanced Europeans so much further than anyone else such that eventually Europeans rediscovered Americas and took over, completely replacing native Indian populations,...

Just like people from Volga - Don steppe once replaced people in Europe!
 
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