"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm appealing?

Vincent

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Alright, I know I know, So i was talking to this chick i went to homecoming with. I never talked to her before on it so don't think its the way i got to know her ot anything like that. I actually got her really into me this one night but we never really hit it off. But anyways.

So i'm talking with this chick, its pretty late and i'm pretty tired, i had just closed at my work so i wasn't gonna do anything, and we're just shooting the Sh*t so to speak. Just talking about situations, like have you had sex, when was your first kiss, etc etc. We were doing like 20 questions, and she asked me if she came up and kissed me what would i do and stuff like that. I was doing neg hits just to have some fun.

So she said i was appealing. At first I thought it was just another way of saying she was attracted to me (again ;) ). So i'm like, ya i usually have that effect on people. Than she said like, no your appealing, like scenarios with you.

I'm still confused. Whats the difference between apealing and attracted to?

--Vincent

Plz no "AIMS GAY" cause i agree, i was just talking to her as friends. As you should know i'm a true blood Don Juan, i wasn't practicing or anything like that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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AIMS GAY
 

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:) On a more serious note...

Appealing vs Attractive
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Friendly vs Sexy
 

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Originally posted by Smooth as Anything
AIMS GAY
lol thanks smooth :D

I see now, it makes sense, i'm not really trying to game her so i didn't lose sleep over this or anything :p Lots of love
 
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