"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm appealing?

Vincent

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Alright, I know I know, So i was talking to this chick i went to homecoming with. I never talked to her before on it so don't think its the way i got to know her ot anything like that. I actually got her really into me this one night but we never really hit it off. But anyways.

So i'm talking with this chick, its pretty late and i'm pretty tired, i had just closed at my work so i wasn't gonna do anything, and we're just shooting the Sh*t so to speak. Just talking about situations, like have you had sex, when was your first kiss, etc etc. We were doing like 20 questions, and she asked me if she came up and kissed me what would i do and stuff like that. I was doing neg hits just to have some fun.

So she said i was appealing. At first I thought it was just another way of saying she was attracted to me (again ;) ). So i'm like, ya i usually have that effect on people. Than she said like, no your appealing, like scenarios with you.

I'm still confused. Whats the difference between apealing and attracted to?

--Vincent

Plz no "AIMS GAY" cause i agree, i was just talking to her as friends. As you should know i'm a true blood Don Juan, i wasn't practicing or anything like that.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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AIMS GAY
 

Smooth as Anything

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:) On a more serious note...

Appealing vs Attractive
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Friendly vs Sexy
 

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Originally posted by Smooth as Anything
AIMS GAY
lol thanks smooth :D

I see now, it makes sense, i'm not really trying to game her so i didn't lose sleep over this or anything :p Lots of love
 
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