"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm appealing?

Vincent

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Alright, I know I know, So i was talking to this chick i went to homecoming with. I never talked to her before on it so don't think its the way i got to know her ot anything like that. I actually got her really into me this one night but we never really hit it off. But anyways.

So i'm talking with this chick, its pretty late and i'm pretty tired, i had just closed at my work so i wasn't gonna do anything, and we're just shooting the Sh*t so to speak. Just talking about situations, like have you had sex, when was your first kiss, etc etc. We were doing like 20 questions, and she asked me if she came up and kissed me what would i do and stuff like that. I was doing neg hits just to have some fun.

So she said i was appealing. At first I thought it was just another way of saying she was attracted to me (again ;) ). So i'm like, ya i usually have that effect on people. Than she said like, no your appealing, like scenarios with you.

I'm still confused. Whats the difference between apealing and attracted to?

--Vincent

Plz no "AIMS GAY" cause i agree, i was just talking to her as friends. As you should know i'm a true blood Don Juan, i wasn't practicing or anything like that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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AIMS GAY
 

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:) On a more serious note...

Appealing vs Attractive
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Friendly vs Sexy
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by Smooth as Anything
AIMS GAY
lol thanks smooth :D

I see now, it makes sense, i'm not really trying to game her so i didn't lose sleep over this or anything :p Lots of love
 
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