"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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quick follow up on the number closes.

One girl didn't answer, the other one I went on a coffee date with today and fvcked her afterwards.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Nice job with the fclose son! Good stuff! Keep it up bud!
 
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ChrizZ said:
This only works if the girl is already feeling you though.
You know I wouldn't talk about this style over here. The whole concept of a guy accepting that women ultimately do the choosing isn't a good thing to bring up over here Chris.

They need to believe that it is the scripts and techniques and anything else would only cause needless arguments and debates dog.

Not saying that the techniques don't work fellas. And more powa to the scripters also.
 

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Did another approach today

#12

Had a small lecture class. I saw the hottest b!tch in there sitting a row behind me. Dark hair and the bluest eyes I've ever seen. She didn't even look at me. I didn't pay more attention to her during the lecture though.

After the lecture...

Me: Hi...I got a question for you.

HB: *Total mood shift (She was all smiley and stuff)* Yes?

Me: ...(then I did the drug dealer thing)

... Then we had the get to know each other talk and we walked into the same direction. She invested a lot in the interaction and was excited.

Me: So what do you wanna do after college then?

HB: I wanna be an animal doctor.

Me: Hmm, sexy and caring. I like that (she laughed and blushed at that moment). So what else do you do?

...then after a while she goes into her building and says bye. I then tell her to get back and to give me her number so that we can hang out sometime.

She said okay and gave it to me and then turned around again.

... I looked her up on Facebook. turns out she has a bf.

Any ideas on how to handle the situation?

Edit: She just added me on Facebook, so I guess she is pretty into me...
 

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You are doing ok in your approaches and getting some results because of your height and accent, but most of your approaches sound abrupt. You are not building any repertoire with any of the girls that are you not closing with.



#1

I was standing in line and saw two hotties in front of me.

Me: "Hey, let me ask you guys a question...I want a serious answer though...Do I look like a drug dealer?"

This is very abrupt. Most girls aren't turned on by something criminal.

Them: "No, why?"

Me: "Because I was walking outside and then suddenly to girls were coming up to me and they were like *putting arm around one chick* 'Hey, do you got some weed?' and they were acting all *****y about it when I told them no.

Them: Omg, really!!!

Me: Yeah, American girls are weird.

Them: Where are you from?

Good, shows interest.

Me: I'm from Germany blablabla. So, what have you guys been up to?

No repertoire here. Where you from? What are your names? What do you like to do? Maybe we could do what you like to do something. "What are you up to" is like something you would say to a buddy, not a girl who you're trying to get into her pants.

Them: Oh, we were just studying.

Me: Really. I'm having a party tonight at my dorm, you guys should come.

Them: Sure, where is it at...

Me: It's at blablaba.

...then that one chick said, hey we gotta get going now and pulled the other chick away because the other hot chick was into me! That kinda sucked.

That's why you always have to soften the blocker first. Plus they don't if they are going to get raped at this party or what. There is no comfort level you've established with them. Props on the approach though


#2
Two 7s were sitting at a table.

I sit at the table behind them.

Me: "Hey, I got a question for you guys. What are some good bars to check out around the area?"

Them: "Blablabla"

Me: "Oh, cool. I've been to those bars already though with my friends. There isn't a lot going on here really. Unlike where I just moved from."

Them: "Where did you move from?"

Me: "I'm originally from Germany, but I just moved here from California. California is so different...*going into DHV story*

Them: "Oh, cool. We have to get going though. It was nice meeting ya. Have fun!"

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I could feel that it wasn't going anywhere cuz they weren't attracted to me.

Perhaps but again, they asked you were you from...you go into a long story about yourself and you never ask them any personal questions. Where you from? What do you do? How long have you lived here? It doesn't appear like you are showing interest in the ladies and are being sincere.

#3

Saw a hot chick at the bookstore.

Me: *Did the drug dealer thing again*

her: so where are you from?

Me: Germany, but I just moved here from Cali.

her: Oh, really. I'm from Illinois, but I've been to Florida before.

Me: So have you tried surfing then?

her: No.

Right here you have to change the subject to something so identifies with, something she likes. "Oh really, then what do you like to do down in the hot weather? What part of Florida did you go to? What did you do? Yes and no and answers don't help the situation at all.

Me: Well, *going into DHV story*

I don't know what DHV story is, but its a problem since it didn't work last 3 times.

her: It was nice meeting ya, but I gotta get to class.

Me: okay


...a clear rejection here.

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I know what I'm doing wrong though. I have to be more direct during day game because my approaches come off as try hard.
You got guts for approaching so much, it just seems like you need to be more sincere with these girls.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DonJuan11 said:
You got guts for approaching so much, it just seems like you need to be more sincere with these girls.
I understand what you are saying.

One thing I noticed is that the drug dealer thing works better on sets instead of chicks that are by themselves.

I had more comfort and rapport with latest chick though. So I believe it went pretty well. I just gotta get her to cheat on her bf or dump him.

I'll try a more direct way of approaching on my next approaches.
 

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Rapport, not repertoire, Casanova Jr.
 

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she may show "bf" on her facebook to ward off a ton of messages

just verify that before you make any strategic attempts, lol.

anyhow she could be tired/bored of the bf and looking to branch swing. you never really know so your best bet is to just build a bit of rapport (which it sound like you did) and ask her out.
 

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#13

Went clubbing today. The place was dead. There were only like 5 chicks and 50 guys in there.

I approached 3 girls.

Me:"Hey, where are all the cool girls at?"

Them: "Right here!"

Me: "Oh, come on. You guys are just standing there. What do I pay you for???"

Them: LOL

Me: *Looking at the hottest chick in the group* I didn't know we had some serious burners here tonight...lets go dance!

Them: Okay

so I danced in the middle of all three of them and then eventually got a make out with the hottest chick. My phone was dead though, so I just gave her my number...

#14

Some HB7 wanted to take a pic of me with her so I said okay.

her: "Hi, I'm blablaba"

Me: "I'm Chris"

*She was giving me a really strong handshake*

Me: Whoa, easy there.

Her: I'm in the Army.

Me: How many push ups can you do?

Her: More than you can count!

Me: Is every girl in the army as ****y as you?

Her: Yes.

Me: Let's go dance.

...then I danced with her and she slapped my a$$ and I slapped her back. I wasn't really horny though and after a while one of her friends pulled her away.
 

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#15

Had dinner at the cafeteria today.

An HB9 chick was getting a drink at the soda machine and was there with her friends. I didn't really have a lot of time for the approach.

Me: *Drug dealer thing*

Her: *laughs*, but her friends kinda pull her away after that.

#16

Saw an uber hottie HB10 sitting two tables from me and my buddies in a mini skirt. I had a boner from just looking at her. She was sitting there with 4 of her girlfriends. I stepped over to them...

Me: *Kino shoulder + EC* Are you still single?

Her: Yes...

Me: That's pretty sad especially on Valentine's day. I'm Chris...

Her: I'm Stef *handshake*

Me: So what are we gonna do about it?! Let's do something tonight...

Her: I'm sorry, I'm already going out with my girlfriends...

Me: Where are you guys going to?

Her: Blabla

Me: That's where I'm going, too. I'll see you guys there then!

*eject*
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ChrizZ said:
#15

Had dinner at the cafeteria today.

An HB9 chick was getting a drink at the soda machine and was there with her friends. I didn't really have a lot of time for the approach.

Me: *Drug dealer thing*

Her: *laughs*, but her friends kinda pull her away after that.

#16

Saw an uber hottie HB10 sitting two tables from me and my buddies in a mini skirt. I had a boner from just looking at her. She was sitting there with 4 of her girlfriends. I stepped over to them...

Me: *Kino shoulder + EC* Are you still single?

Her: Yes...

Me: That's pretty sad especially on Valentine's day. I'm Chris...

Her: I'm Stef *handshake*

Me: So what are we gonna do about it?! Let's do something tonight...

Her: I'm sorry, I'm already going out with my girlfriends...

Me: Where are you guys going to?

Her: Blabla

Me: That's where I'm going, too. I'll see you guys there then!

*eject*





"applause", good job man.
 

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Had a Valentines dance today at the University for all the international students.

Nothing spectacular here, except for some banging hot polish chick.

She was really *****y though and really boring. Hot though.

I ran some game on her. Got to put my hand on her knee while we were sitting down and got her to open up a little.

She wasn't into me though, so I left her alone.


After that I went to a club.

All eyes on me because I was dressed up like a mofo.

I get on the dance floor. Immediately one chick starts to grind on me heavily (HB8 with DD knockers :lol: )

I dance with her and have a heavy make out and stuff.

Me: What are you doing after this?

Her: I don't know.

Me: Do you want to come home with me?

Her: Where do u live?

Me: blablabla

Her: Okay.

After that for some reason she said she has gotta go find her coat and just left me there on the dance floor.

I looked and she didn't even look for her coat, she just went back to sit down with her friends...

I said f--k her and started dancing with some other chicks.

Then I walk back to HB8 and she tries to ignore me and says leave (WTF???)

So I went back on the dance floor and made out with a couple of chicks. Then the club closes. I was ready to get my coat when suddenly HB8 is standing behind me.

Her: I want to go home with you...

Me: *Ignoring her*

Her: Come on...

Me: Ok, come with me...


...so I took her to my place and banged her. Pretty successful night...
 
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DonJuan11 said:
You got guts for approaching so much, it just seems like you need to be more sincere with these girls.

HELLO

why are you posting advice? do you know what to do to succeed? youre a virgin so get off of this playa's thread and go improve yourself little man
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What I want to see is the test of the MM not you running around approaching women Chrisz. You started this as a test of mm and left it behind.

So what is your impression of that style and why did you leave it behind?

I think some of the guys on here would like to know the answer to that question.

Also what is your advice for the fellows on this forum about gaming at this point taking into account they are not all 6'3 or racial issues and all that.
 

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TheRealSupreme said:
What I want to see is the test of the MM not you running around approaching women Chrisz. You started this as a test of mm and left it behind.

So what is your impression of that style and why did you leave it behind?

I think some of the guys on here would like to know the answer to that question.

Also what is your advice for the fellows on this forum about gaming at this point taking into account they are not all 6'3 or racial issues and all that.
The thing I learned about MM is that you shouldn't use canned stuff.

If the woman isn't feeling you then it's a hopeless case though. Sure, you can get a decent conversation and a #, but nothing more.

The PUA stuff is good for gaining social proof which will get you more attention from the hot girls and more choosing signals.


My advice is to make yourself as good looking as possible and to maximize your potential.

Doesn't matter how tall you are or what race you are.

- Go hit the gym and get big.

- Find out your purpose in life.

- Dress like a man of power.

- Get some experience under your belt.

- Work on your communication skills. Read stuff from Juggler about that.

- Learn how to dance.

- Learn how to lead. Not only women, but people in general.

That's pretty much all you need to do to get women and you will automatically gain confidence.

The problem is that most people only talk about their goals and forget to put in the required effort.

As in almost everything you have to start at the bottom and then slowly climb to the top.

If you follow my advice I guarantee you wont have any trouble with women...
 
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Amen brutha! I guess your job is to help these guys discover this. You seem to have your head on straight. Your not into flame wars like this other guy whom I will leave nameless.

Do what ya do dog.

What e-book would you recommed from juggler on communications for the fellas here?
 
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if only all the chumps on this forum had the balls to "snap" like chrizz over here did, they'd also be posting about hand jobs, make outs, and sex with a sexy club girl

(i saw the girl chrizz fcuked, shes a solid 9/10)

chrizz knew he was being a pvssy.......look at why he made this thread......he called it IM ABOUT TO SNAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

obviously he was not approaching and thinking too much theory, and that is the PERFECT SOLUTION for any guy who is being a total pvssy.......just SNAP

and approach bytches.......meet them.......get rejected.....get makeouts......get handjobs.......and WHOA, fcuk them and then put them all on your team so you can fcuk them over and over and over

its not theory rocket science, EXPERIENCE WILL POINT EVERYONE IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION!!
 

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TheRealSupreme said:
Amen brutha! I guess your job is to help these guys discover this. You seem to have your head on straight. Your not into flame wars like this other guy whom I will leave nameless.

Do what ya do dog.

What e-book would you recommed from juggler on communications for the fellas here?
Read: "How to be a Pickup artist" or the "Juggler Method encyclopedia".
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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