KarmaSutra
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Classic!The Inside Man said:Make sure you are wearing at least 2.5 suits for every approach. Failproof method, field tested.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Classic!The Inside Man said:Make sure you are wearing at least 2.5 suits for every approach. Failproof method, field tested.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Weren't you the guy that sleeps on a park bench?The Inside Man said:Make sure you are wearing at least 2.5 suits for every approach. Failproof method, field tested.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
No! Stick with it. It takes 6 months before you will see any results according to the leader of a local lair in my town. I think you need to learn for yourself if this is a good way to go or not. Your the type that buys into the hype and has to learn for himself if it will work for him.ChrizZ said:Okay so I just came back from a club. I decided to cut the bullsh!t with the routines and stuff.
Ouch....I hate that line. Totally sucks behind in my opinion. You just had her your nuts to squish. I have heard some of the direct guys get away with it sometimes or a version of that approach. But I think they say something a bit more romantic and they say it to nice girls not club whors.ChrizZ said:The #5
I see a hot chick with another female friend.
I walk up to them.
Me: "Hey, what's going on guys?"
*they are totally smiling at this point*
*I turn around to the hot chick.*
Me: "You are gorgeous"
You know a lot of PUA's say that intimidated by me thing. Which do you think. Let's see she is a super hottie. She knows she has power over men who are suckers for her looks. You just handed her NO challenge and put your nuts in her back pocket...ChrizZ said:*backs away, but smiles*
Me: "What's your name?"
HB: I don't wanna tell.
Me: Ok, too bad. Well, have fun guys...
She was either creeped out or intimidated by me.
Yeah you gotta watch out for dance whors who get off on breaking men's nuts off then walking away. They will be on the floor dancing alone or with a girlfriend getting freaky. Making fake eye contact to sucker you in. You will develop a feel for them in time, so don't sweat it.ChrizZ said:#6
Then a hot b!tch started giving me EC on the dance floor and I started dancing with her.
She was a tease though. She might have been a lesbian because she made out with her girlfriend on the dance floor later on. She ejected after a while and a big steroid dude started dancing with her and then she made him all horney and then she ejected again after a while. An Attention *****.
Don't let these guys who show up wearing jeans and printed teeshirts to the game razz you about going in looking good.ChrizZ said:Weren't you the guy that sleeps on a park bench?
At least I got clothes to wear.
Now don't post in my thread again. I'm not gonna reply to you anymore.
Im from switzerland foo...ChrizZ said:did 3 approaches so far.
#1
I was standing in line and saw two hotties in front of me.
Me: "Hey, let me ask you guys a question...I want a serious answer though...Do I look like a drug dealer?"
Them: "No, why?"
Me: "Because I was walking outside and then suddenly to girls were coming up to me and they were like *putting arm around one chick* 'Hey, do you got some weed?' and they were acting all *****y about it when I told them no.
Them: Omg, really!!!
Me: Yeah, American girls are weird.
Them: Where are you from?
Me: I'm from Germany blablabla. So, what have you guys been up to?
Them: Oh, we were just studying.
Me: Really. I'm having a party tonight at my dorm, you guys should come.
Them: Sure, where is it at...
Me: It's at blablaba.
...then that one chick said, hey we gotta get going now and pulled the other chick away because the other hot chick was into me! That kinda sucked.
#2
Two 7s were sitting at a table.
I sit at the table behind them.
Me: "Hey, I got a question for you guys. What are some good bars to check out around the area?"
Them: "Blablabla"
Me: "Oh, cool. I've been to those bars already though with my friends. There isn't a lot going on here really. Unlike where I just moved from."
Them: "Where did you move from?"
Me: "I'm originally from Germany, but I just moved here from California. California is so different...*going into DHV story*
Them: "Oh, cool. We have to get going though. It was nice meeting ya. Have fun!"
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I could feel that it wasn't going anywhere cuz they weren't attracted to me.
#3
Saw a hot chick at the bookstore.
Me: *Did the drug dealer thing again*
her: so where are you from?
Me: Germany, but I just moved here from Cali.
her: Oh, really. I'm from Illinois, but I've been to Florida before.
Me: So have you tried surfing then?
her: No.
Me: Well, *going into DHV story*
her: It was nice meeting ya, but I gotta get to class.
Me: okay
...a clear rejection here.
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I know what I'm doing wrong though. I have to be more direct during day game because my approaches come off as try hard.
rofl yea or my favorite when i spoke german on the fone to my mom this american girl says "I thought they speak french in europe"DjDan said:i'm from switzerland, do you speak SWEDISH, hahahahahahha
rofl.
are people really that stupid?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
roflAfRoSwiss-Disiac said:rofl yea or my favorite when i spoke german on the fone to my mom this american girl says "I thought they speak french in europe"
bullsh*t, it don't matter what you look like. One time on holiday, i had a huge hangover, hadn't shaved and looked like sh*t with bloodshot eyes and all that... and a girl i met a day before in a disco wanted a piggyback ride and litterally tried to jumpe me a couple of times she was all over me [i actually rejected her, ironic isn't it? she had a pretty ugly face but really an amazing KILLER body. I still hate myself for it]. It's all about, and i do mean 100 f*cking percent, how you carry yourself.The Inside Man said:Make sure you are wearing at least 2.5 suits for every approach. Failproof method, field tested.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Well, I believe having an average physique will attract average women.DonJoseCantosie said:Hey ChriZz...i doubt u have to get bigger. Ur physique is prolly good enough. U might just need to increase ur sexual state, which is a problem amongst guys i would assume and conveying it to a girl.
EXACTLY.demonic said:This is what put's most guy's off approach, why does everyone make it sound so hard?.
All you have to do is this -
me:hey/hi i'm ***** , what's your name?
her: blah blah
me: offer hand
from there the rest is history.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.