KarmaSutra
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Classic!The Inside Man said:Make sure you are wearing at least 2.5 suits for every approach. Failproof method, field tested.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Classic!The Inside Man said:Make sure you are wearing at least 2.5 suits for every approach. Failproof method, field tested.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Weren't you the guy that sleeps on a park bench?The Inside Man said:Make sure you are wearing at least 2.5 suits for every approach. Failproof method, field tested.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
No! Stick with it. It takes 6 months before you will see any results according to the leader of a local lair in my town. I think you need to learn for yourself if this is a good way to go or not. Your the type that buys into the hype and has to learn for himself if it will work for him.ChrizZ said:Okay so I just came back from a club. I decided to cut the bullsh!t with the routines and stuff.
Ouch....I hate that line. Totally sucks behind in my opinion. You just had her your nuts to squish. I have heard some of the direct guys get away with it sometimes or a version of that approach. But I think they say something a bit more romantic and they say it to nice girls not club whors.ChrizZ said:The #5
I see a hot chick with another female friend.
I walk up to them.
Me: "Hey, what's going on guys?"
*they are totally smiling at this point*
*I turn around to the hot chick.*
Me: "You are gorgeous"
You know a lot of PUA's say that intimidated by me thing. Which do you think. Let's see she is a super hottie. She knows she has power over men who are suckers for her looks. You just handed her NO challenge and put your nuts in her back pocket...ChrizZ said:*backs away, but smiles*
Me: "What's your name?"
HB: I don't wanna tell.
Me: Ok, too bad. Well, have fun guys...
She was either creeped out or intimidated by me.
Yeah you gotta watch out for dance whors who get off on breaking men's nuts off then walking away. They will be on the floor dancing alone or with a girlfriend getting freaky. Making fake eye contact to sucker you in. You will develop a feel for them in time, so don't sweat it.ChrizZ said:#6
Then a hot b!tch started giving me EC on the dance floor and I started dancing with her.
She was a tease though. She might have been a lesbian because she made out with her girlfriend on the dance floor later on. She ejected after a while and a big steroid dude started dancing with her and then she made him all horney and then she ejected again after a while. An Attention *****.
Don't let these guys who show up wearing jeans and printed teeshirts to the game razz you about going in looking good.ChrizZ said:Weren't you the guy that sleeps on a park bench?
At least I got clothes to wear.
Now don't post in my thread again. I'm not gonna reply to you anymore.
Im from switzerland foo...ChrizZ said:did 3 approaches so far.
#1
I was standing in line and saw two hotties in front of me.
Me: "Hey, let me ask you guys a question...I want a serious answer though...Do I look like a drug dealer?"
Them: "No, why?"
Me: "Because I was walking outside and then suddenly to girls were coming up to me and they were like *putting arm around one chick* 'Hey, do you got some weed?' and they were acting all *****y about it when I told them no.
Them: Omg, really!!!
Me: Yeah, American girls are weird.
Them: Where are you from?
Me: I'm from Germany blablabla. So, what have you guys been up to?
Them: Oh, we were just studying.
Me: Really. I'm having a party tonight at my dorm, you guys should come.
Them: Sure, where is it at...
Me: It's at blablaba.
...then that one chick said, hey we gotta get going now and pulled the other chick away because the other hot chick was into me! That kinda sucked.
#2
Two 7s were sitting at a table.
I sit at the table behind them.
Me: "Hey, I got a question for you guys. What are some good bars to check out around the area?"
Them: "Blablabla"
Me: "Oh, cool. I've been to those bars already though with my friends. There isn't a lot going on here really. Unlike where I just moved from."
Them: "Where did you move from?"
Me: "I'm originally from Germany, but I just moved here from California. California is so different...*going into DHV story*
Them: "Oh, cool. We have to get going though. It was nice meeting ya. Have fun!"
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I could feel that it wasn't going anywhere cuz they weren't attracted to me.
#3
Saw a hot chick at the bookstore.
Me: *Did the drug dealer thing again*
her: so where are you from?
Me: Germany, but I just moved here from Cali.
her: Oh, really. I'm from Illinois, but I've been to Florida before.
Me: So have you tried surfing then?
her: No.
Me: Well, *going into DHV story*
her: It was nice meeting ya, but I gotta get to class.
Me: okay
...a clear rejection here.
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I know what I'm doing wrong though. I have to be more direct during day game because my approaches come off as try hard.
rofl yea or my favorite when i spoke german on the fone to my mom this american girl says "I thought they speak french in europe"DjDan said:i'm from switzerland, do you speak SWEDISH, hahahahahahha
rofl.
are people really that stupid?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
roflAfRoSwiss-Disiac said:rofl yea or my favorite when i spoke german on the fone to my mom this american girl says "I thought they speak french in europe"
bullsh*t, it don't matter what you look like. One time on holiday, i had a huge hangover, hadn't shaved and looked like sh*t with bloodshot eyes and all that... and a girl i met a day before in a disco wanted a piggyback ride and litterally tried to jumpe me a couple of times she was all over me [i actually rejected her, ironic isn't it? she had a pretty ugly face but really an amazing KILLER body. I still hate myself for it]. It's all about, and i do mean 100 f*cking percent, how you carry yourself.The Inside Man said:Make sure you are wearing at least 2.5 suits for every approach. Failproof method, field tested.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Well, I believe having an average physique will attract average women.DonJoseCantosie said:Hey ChriZz...i doubt u have to get bigger. Ur physique is prolly good enough. U might just need to increase ur sexual state, which is a problem amongst guys i would assume and conveying it to a girl.
EXACTLY.demonic said:This is what put's most guy's off approach, why does everyone make it sound so hard?.
All you have to do is this -
me:hey/hi i'm ***** , what's your name?
her: blah blah
me: offer hand
from there the rest is history.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.