"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm a younger looking college freshman...tips on gaming girls older than me?

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I'm a younger looking college freshman...how to respond when a girl points this out?

There's a negative connotation associated with being a freshman...even though girls at this age will still be reluctant to hook up with a younger looking guy who is one year below them, there's low status associated with the word "freshman".

A kid on my floor said he just told a girl he was a sophomore to get into her pants, and it worked out for him, but I look like I'm 16 or 17, not 19 or 20. And I am young for my grade I suppose.

I can usually at least put the girl in her place so she doesn't feel superior to me for being a year or two older, but I was wondering what you guys do in such a situation?
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm in the Mood

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Exhumed said:
There's a negative connotation associated with being a freshman...even though girls at this age will still be reluctant to hook up with a younger looking guy who is one year below them, there's low status associated with the word "freshman".

A kid on my floor said he just told a girl he was a sophomore to get into her pants, and it worked out for him, but I look like I'm 16 or 17, not 19 or 20. And I am young for my grade I suppose.

I can usually at least put the girl in her place so she doesn't feel superior to me for being a year or two older, but I was wondering what you guys do in such a situation?
Man it doesn't work like that!
He wasn't like "I'm a sophomore. Now take all of your clothes off."

You NEED to be confident that being a freshman doesn't define you as a person.
The crazy truth is - it doesn't. You can look young and still be sexy.

Try stealing her frame and act like you want older girls, girls who can completely rock your world in bed. A girl with experience.

Bottom line - if a girl asks what year you're in, either tell her the truth, ignore her or make up some c&f.
That's all there is to it dude, it's simpler than you're making it out to be.

You don't need to lie to get pvssy.
 

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Reframe it.

"yea you're probably too old for me anyway, grandma. i only like young girls ;) "
 

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You game the young ones like you do the older ones homey. Confidence is universally attractive.
 

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I'm In The Mood: I should have phrased that better; when she asked he told her he was a sophomore, and then he happened to sleep with her that night. I'm not that new to the game, I know how things work :crackup: I'm not too insecure about being a young frosh, the anti-freshman vibe just caught me off guard as I'm not used to gaming older girls; last year I was a senior in high school. I like your advice though, that's a very sexual and direct response and I need to try being a little more direct.

(JJ): Thanks, solid advice. Although telling her I only go for younger girls would be bad. I realize it was just a quick example.

Karate Kid: I should have been more specific with the title, I mainly wanted to know how to respond when a girl points out my froshness. You're right, the topic title alone is a stupid question with an obvious answer.

Thanks for the advice, solid as always, I'll definitely apply it the next time I approach a lil cutie at a party and, to my surprise, she ends up being a junior or a senior. :D
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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u could always say something about the school needing to bring someone in to liven up the place, so they brought you in.

work with that a bit, and you could make it about her being boring, which is always a good way to tease her.
 
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