"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm a younger looking college freshman...tips on gaming girls older than me?

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I'm a younger looking college freshman...how to respond when a girl points this out?

There's a negative connotation associated with being a freshman...even though girls at this age will still be reluctant to hook up with a younger looking guy who is one year below them, there's low status associated with the word "freshman".

A kid on my floor said he just told a girl he was a sophomore to get into her pants, and it worked out for him, but I look like I'm 16 or 17, not 19 or 20. And I am young for my grade I suppose.

I can usually at least put the girl in her place so she doesn't feel superior to me for being a year or two older, but I was wondering what you guys do in such a situation?
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm in the Mood

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Exhumed said:
There's a negative connotation associated with being a freshman...even though girls at this age will still be reluctant to hook up with a younger looking guy who is one year below them, there's low status associated with the word "freshman".

A kid on my floor said he just told a girl he was a sophomore to get into her pants, and it worked out for him, but I look like I'm 16 or 17, not 19 or 20. And I am young for my grade I suppose.

I can usually at least put the girl in her place so she doesn't feel superior to me for being a year or two older, but I was wondering what you guys do in such a situation?
Man it doesn't work like that!
He wasn't like "I'm a sophomore. Now take all of your clothes off."

You NEED to be confident that being a freshman doesn't define you as a person.
The crazy truth is - it doesn't. You can look young and still be sexy.

Try stealing her frame and act like you want older girls, girls who can completely rock your world in bed. A girl with experience.

Bottom line - if a girl asks what year you're in, either tell her the truth, ignore her or make up some c&f.
That's all there is to it dude, it's simpler than you're making it out to be.

You don't need to lie to get pvssy.
 

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Reframe it.

"yea you're probably too old for me anyway, grandma. i only like young girls ;) "
 

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You game the young ones like you do the older ones homey. Confidence is universally attractive.
 

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I'm In The Mood: I should have phrased that better; when she asked he told her he was a sophomore, and then he happened to sleep with her that night. I'm not that new to the game, I know how things work :crackup: I'm not too insecure about being a young frosh, the anti-freshman vibe just caught me off guard as I'm not used to gaming older girls; last year I was a senior in high school. I like your advice though, that's a very sexual and direct response and I need to try being a little more direct.

(JJ): Thanks, solid advice. Although telling her I only go for younger girls would be bad. I realize it was just a quick example.

Karate Kid: I should have been more specific with the title, I mainly wanted to know how to respond when a girl points out my froshness. You're right, the topic title alone is a stupid question with an obvious answer.

Thanks for the advice, solid as always, I'll definitely apply it the next time I approach a lil cutie at a party and, to my surprise, she ends up being a junior or a senior. :D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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u could always say something about the school needing to bring someone in to liven up the place, so they brought you in.

work with that a bit, and you could make it about her being boring, which is always a good way to tease her.
 
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