"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm a younger looking college freshman...tips on gaming girls older than me?

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I'm a younger looking college freshman...how to respond when a girl points this out?

There's a negative connotation associated with being a freshman...even though girls at this age will still be reluctant to hook up with a younger looking guy who is one year below them, there's low status associated with the word "freshman".

A kid on my floor said he just told a girl he was a sophomore to get into her pants, and it worked out for him, but I look like I'm 16 or 17, not 19 or 20. And I am young for my grade I suppose.

I can usually at least put the girl in her place so she doesn't feel superior to me for being a year or two older, but I was wondering what you guys do in such a situation?
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm in the Mood

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Exhumed said:
There's a negative connotation associated with being a freshman...even though girls at this age will still be reluctant to hook up with a younger looking guy who is one year below them, there's low status associated with the word "freshman".

A kid on my floor said he just told a girl he was a sophomore to get into her pants, and it worked out for him, but I look like I'm 16 or 17, not 19 or 20. And I am young for my grade I suppose.

I can usually at least put the girl in her place so she doesn't feel superior to me for being a year or two older, but I was wondering what you guys do in such a situation?
Man it doesn't work like that!
He wasn't like "I'm a sophomore. Now take all of your clothes off."

You NEED to be confident that being a freshman doesn't define you as a person.
The crazy truth is - it doesn't. You can look young and still be sexy.

Try stealing her frame and act like you want older girls, girls who can completely rock your world in bed. A girl with experience.

Bottom line - if a girl asks what year you're in, either tell her the truth, ignore her or make up some c&f.
That's all there is to it dude, it's simpler than you're making it out to be.

You don't need to lie to get pvssy.
 

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Reframe it.

"yea you're probably too old for me anyway, grandma. i only like young girls ;) "
 

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You game the young ones like you do the older ones homey. Confidence is universally attractive.
 

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I'm In The Mood: I should have phrased that better; when she asked he told her he was a sophomore, and then he happened to sleep with her that night. I'm not that new to the game, I know how things work :crackup: I'm not too insecure about being a young frosh, the anti-freshman vibe just caught me off guard as I'm not used to gaming older girls; last year I was a senior in high school. I like your advice though, that's a very sexual and direct response and I need to try being a little more direct.

(JJ): Thanks, solid advice. Although telling her I only go for younger girls would be bad. I realize it was just a quick example.

Karate Kid: I should have been more specific with the title, I mainly wanted to know how to respond when a girl points out my froshness. You're right, the topic title alone is a stupid question with an obvious answer.

Thanks for the advice, solid as always, I'll definitely apply it the next time I approach a lil cutie at a party and, to my surprise, she ends up being a junior or a senior. :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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u could always say something about the school needing to bring someone in to liven up the place, so they brought you in.

work with that a bit, and you could make it about her being boring, which is always a good way to tease her.
 
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