"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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'I'm a virgin, you know'

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OK. Does anyone have any idea what the bottom line is about those girls who tell you in the first 5 minutes that they are virgins? It happens now and then some cute girl - usually, very cute for some reason- will pop up and before youve even found out if she's local or not she'll drop that clanger. You don't know if it's true, you didn't bring sex up, just... bam.

Generally, it'll be a girl who you find it really hard to believe about, she'll be 18-23, HB8.5-9 and she will smack of naivety, which may or may not be a front. It's not a secret confided in you in a moment of trust, it'll just be volunteered with the slightest reasoning, breezily, like they might say they like curry.

What is their game?

Is it a lie/ploy, and if so, what's it meant to achieve with me or the next guy?

Is it true, and somehow you managed to elicit that particular information in record time, possibly because it's at the front of their minds suddenly?

Is it just evidence of damaged goods whether true or false, that they're determined to tell anyone? I go with this, currently.

What do I make of it?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by nectarine
OK. Does anyone have any idea what the bottom line is about those girls who tell you in the first 5 minutes that they are virgins? It happens now and then some cute girl - usually, very cute for some reason- will pop up and before youve even found out if she's local or not she'll drop that clanger. You don't know if it's true, you didn't bring sex up, just... bam.

Generally, it'll be a girl who you find it really hard to believe about, she'll be 18-23, HB8.5-9 and she will smack of naivety, which may or may not be a front. It's not a secret confided in you in a moment of trust, it'll just be volunteered with the slightest reasoning, breezily, like they might say they like curry.

What is their game?

Is it a lie/ploy, and if so, what's it meant to achieve with me or the next guy?

Is it true, and somehow you managed to elicit that particular information in record time, possibly because it's at the front of their minds suddenly?

Is it just evidence of damaged goods whether true or false, that they're determined to tell anyone? I go with this, currently.

What do I make of it?
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Turn it back on her...
"That's a pretty good ploy you've got going. Does it always work?" ... get her to qualify.
 
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Just reply with something along the lines of "hmm.. oh well, i guess we cant have sex then... I dont want you getting to clingy;D" .. u say this in a joking manner obviously, and then see by her reaction if she is interested in you or not.


Laterz...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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She feels special when she saiz that. it's a way of getting attention (not necceserally from you)
 
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"oh...pft"

I actually use that as a resonse to 95% of womens' dumb comments...
 
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girls that say that out of now were are probably lying. they just want to grab more of your attention. hopefully no girls say that crap to me cause I wont believe it.:)
 
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Attention whoring, definitely. I still find it an odd thing to use though, true or not. Just makes me think... ice queen...
 
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