'I'm a virgin, you know'

[nectarine]

OK. Does anyone have any idea what the bottom line is about those girls who tell you in the first 5 minutes that they are virgins? It happens now and then some cute girl - usually, very cute for some reason- will pop up and before youve even found out if she's local or not she'll drop that clanger. You don't know if it's true, you didn't bring sex up, just... bam.

Generally, it'll be a girl who you find it really hard to believe about, she'll be 18-23, HB8.5-9 and she will smack of naivety, which may or may not be a front. It's not a secret confided in you in a moment of trust, it'll just be volunteered with the slightest reasoning, breezily, like they might say they like curry.

What is their game?

Is it a lie/ploy, and if so, what's it meant to achieve with me or the next guy?

Is it true, and somehow you managed to elicit that particular information in record time, possibly because it's at the front of their minds suddenly?

Is it just evidence of damaged goods whether true or false, that they're determined to tell anyone? I go with this, currently.

What do I make of it?

 

[syncmaster]

Originally posted by nectarine
OK. Does anyone have any idea what the bottom line is about those girls who tell you in the first 5 minutes that they are virgins? It happens now and then some cute girl - usually, very cute for some reason- will pop up and before youve even found out if she's local or not she'll drop that clanger. You don't know if it's true, you didn't bring sex up, just... bam.

Generally, it'll be a girl who you find it really hard to believe about, she'll be 18-23, HB8.5-9 and she will smack of naivety, which may or may not be a front. It's not a secret confided in you in a moment of trust, it'll just be volunteered with the slightest reasoning, breezily, like they might say they like curry.

What is their game?

Is it a lie/ploy, and if so, what's it meant to achieve with me or the next guy?

Is it true, and somehow you managed to elicit that particular information in record time, possibly because it's at the front of their minds suddenly?

Is it just evidence of damaged goods whether true or false, that they're determined to tell anyone? I go with this, currently.

What do I make of it?

Turn it back on her...
"That's a pretty good ploy you've got going. Does it always work?" ... get her to qualify.

 

[nectarine]

Mmm... I guess so. Might even figure it out then too!

Cheers, that's why I come here.

 

[Climax]

Just reply with something along the lines of "hmm.. oh well, i guess we cant have sex then... I dont want you getting to clingy;D" .. u say this in a joking manner obviously, and then see by her reaction if she is interested in you or not.


Laterz...

 

[Life-Trainee]

In Ali G style, put on a dirty smile and say "Respect"

 

[spider_007]

She feels special when she saiz that. it's a way of getting attention (not necceserally from you)

 

[Soprano]

"oh...pft"

I actually use that as a resonse to 95% of womens' dumb comments...

 

[avrilishot]

girls that say that out of now were are probably lying. they just want to grab more of your attention. hopefully no girls say that crap to me cause I wont believe it.

 

[nectarine]

Attention whoring, definitely. I still find it an odd thing to use though, true or not. Just makes me think... ice queen...