"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm a NOOB at online game. So thoughts on this opener?

Yaounde

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So I had Ok cupid for a while, never used, but I just spruced it and now I figure I've got a pretty good write up and pics and judging by the 100% reply rate I've got (yeah okay it's only three chicks so far but..) I think I'm right.

But anyways I wrote this one chick (a solid 8.5-9) who mostly put some random useless **** about herself on her profile

Me:
"Why hello there person who doesn't say much about herself. Let's play a game. You tell me something I know about yourself and I'll tell you something you don't know.

So me first :)
I'm not actually half around the world away from you. I'm muuuch closer.

And now your turn..."

Oh yeah I forgot to mention I'm a Canadian in Germany
She writes back telling me more useless stuff, but she did comply:

"My sox are orange und furry"

I figure this has some good pretty game potential... I set up the frame, she complied, it's open ended, could lead to lots of verbal escalation and has her qualifying herself to me.

So where would you take this from here?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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crossedup

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Sounds alright if she's replying, tho she sounds as if she's 5 years old. Go for the number quickly, online dating is a numbers game, you don't wanna f*ck around with girls that are being AW and wasting your time. Try this advice broought to you by NN:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=196130

It will work wonders for getting these girls numbers, no matter how cheesy and stupid it sounds, because well, usually the girls online are cheesy and stupid. Good luck!
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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The best online game is clicking on that little `x' in the top-right corner of your browser.
 
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