"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm a NOOB at online game. So thoughts on this opener?

Yaounde

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So I had Ok cupid for a while, never used, but I just spruced it and now I figure I've got a pretty good write up and pics and judging by the 100% reply rate I've got (yeah okay it's only three chicks so far but..) I think I'm right.

But anyways I wrote this one chick (a solid 8.5-9) who mostly put some random useless **** about herself on her profile

Me:
"Why hello there person who doesn't say much about herself. Let's play a game. You tell me something I know about yourself and I'll tell you something you don't know.

So me first :)
I'm not actually half around the world away from you. I'm muuuch closer.

And now your turn..."

Oh yeah I forgot to mention I'm a Canadian in Germany
She writes back telling me more useless stuff, but she did comply:

"My sox are orange und furry"

I figure this has some good pretty game potential... I set up the frame, she complied, it's open ended, could lead to lots of verbal escalation and has her qualifying herself to me.

So where would you take this from here?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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crossedup

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Sounds alright if she's replying, tho she sounds as if she's 5 years old. Go for the number quickly, online dating is a numbers game, you don't wanna f*ck around with girls that are being AW and wasting your time. Try this advice broought to you by NN:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=196130

It will work wonders for getting these girls numbers, no matter how cheesy and stupid it sounds, because well, usually the girls online are cheesy and stupid. Good luck!
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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The best online game is clicking on that little `x' in the top-right corner of your browser.
 
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