HumbleNinja
Banned
I'm a LOUD and PROUD BETA. WTF are YOU going to do about it? :cuss: :cheer:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I know.HumbleNinja said:I'm a LOUD and PROUD BETA.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
LOL Exactly! Be a Beta BOSS.zekko said:By mid year 2014 all guys will read seduction forums and be fully practicing alphas. You'll have to be beta to set yourself apart![]()
papawapa said:my actions last night have me firmly cemented as a beta forever...
Booked a room with a view at a swanky downtown hotel. Had flowers delivered, spread rose petals in the shape of a heart on the bed. Took her to dinner. I paid for everything.
She swore we werent going to have secks. We banged for hours. She was enamoured with the size of my rod. She couldnt believe how wet she was. Told me I have a magic stick, that I fook like a porn star. She is now forever putty in my hands.
But yeah, im beta as can be cuz I spent money...
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
good for you manHumbleNinja said:I'm a LOUD and PROUD BETA. WTF are YOU going to do about it? :cuss: :cheer:
This.Arthy said:How old are you guys? I have a feeling like im on a justin beabers forum.
You must have a lot of experience on Justin Biebers forum.Arthy said:How old are you guys? I have a feeling like im on a justin beabers forum.
This is coming from a "mature man" who uses a pair of t1ts as his username. LMAO( . )( . ) said:This.
Self depreciation in very small doses can occasionally come in handy with picking up or winning over crowds but here it's just fail sauce. But You'll get used to these threads.
Some of these cvnts seem to think acting like a sperg hopped up on mountain dew at a LAN party here is funny. Falls way short of Bjerte quality trolling in my opinion.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.