"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I was joking, and my nvts dropped years ago thank you very much:p .

In all seriousness, Spoiled, we appreciate your advise, and I hope you stick around to learn about our point of views. Just read a couple of the main posts in the Bible and you will have an idea of where we're coming from.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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spoiled = another one of those girls who is completely clueless
 
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O shlt a girl, Guys get your poses on quick.



Originally posted by Nocturnal
Your intentions are humble but you are only 15 and girls don't know what they want :).
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True. Now go fvck yourself.

Oh and afc should be changed to NAPY

(NOT A PIMP/PLAYA YET)
 
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[heteropedro]xxx[/Oh and afc should be changed to NAPY]
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hehe i like that one but i dont think it will work bc everyone (well almost everyone) knows what afc is..
 
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Originally posted by deeloo
spoiled = another one of those girls who is completely clueless
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Why am I clueless because I'm trying to help?!?!?!

And about the bible, I tried getting into it numerous times but it won't let me. . .
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Guys, she's just trying to help. There's no need for you to flame her for that. You decide for yourself whether or not to take her advice seriously, but trying to get everyone to believe her or not believe her is futile. It's also incredibly stupid.

Spoiled this is the link to the Bible (top right hand corner).

http://sucs.org/~nicholas/djb/index.php

lmao...."it won't let me" hahaha. Computers don't have feelings.
 
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spoiled, im getting a little tired of yours.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LOL afk...

Its so funny cuz afk is being super nice to her and she cant even realize it.
 
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Originally posted by heteropedro
LOL afk...

Its so funny cuz afk is being super nice to her and she cant even realize it.
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This just goes to show you being nice to a person that is ungrateful and can't see past the....er...I mean, Spoiled, gets your nowhere.

I learned two things from this.

1) If you try to be nice, and it doesn't work, bust out the big guns.

2) Spoiled is fighting an inner battle about the priceless value of my replys.
 
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