"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm a fun life of the party type of guy, where's my women?

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usedtolurk

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I don't think I look bad at all, I think I'm probably a 6.5 or 7. I can see how I lose to guys who are more attractive to me.

I think my biggest asset is my personality. I have the ability to turn almost everything into a party. This really wins with the guys, in a platonic way. But somehow my personality turns off girls.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Don of Truth

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That sucks! Well, we can't all be winners and have a girl. Just chalk it up to fate and let go and accept it.
I did and I'm much happier now!
 
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honestly what ive noticed about parties is that most chicks arent after the dude grabbin all the attention doin backflips and making everyone laugh. Sure they love him for his entertainment value, but inbetween the clownish behavior they are peeping at the suave guy chillin on the sidelines socializing with whoever comes his way.
 
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Okay here's your problem:

You're the clown that all the girls think is funny.
What you need to become is the guy who can socialize.


honestly what ive noticed about parties is that most chicks arent after the dude grabbin all the attention doin backflips and making everyone laugh. Sure they love him for his entertainment value, but inbetween the clownish behavior they are peeping at the suave guy chillin on the sidelines socializing with whoever comes his way.
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Julian is right on.

I've tried both methods... and i've only had success with the suave approach.

You just look like a dumbass... When you're the suave guy you can actually point out those guys and laugh at them and the girl will agree with you.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Yeah there is always some guy at a party making people laugh by being the"life of the party." At the same time they are laughing at these guys because they are embarrassing themselves.
 
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Stop putting a lampshade over your head and making farting noises with your armpits. OK, I don't know what you're doing exactly, but you should approach a specific girl, introduce yourself and get a convo started. Start working the kino, instead of the comedy act. Offer a girl a massage and/or whisper in her ear at a party instead of pulling a rabbit out of your azz.

Keep working the kino and convo, keep escalating and get as far as you can get until you get a 'no', a lay, or a slap across the face. Read the Gunwitch Method. Good luck and stop acting like a dork at parties. Act like a DJ, bro.
 
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