"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm a fun life of the party type of guy, where's my women?

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I don't think I look bad at all, I think I'm probably a 6.5 or 7. I can see how I lose to guys who are more attractive to me.

I think my biggest asset is my personality. I have the ability to turn almost everything into a party. This really wins with the guys, in a platonic way. But somehow my personality turns off girls.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Don of Truth

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That sucks! Well, we can't all be winners and have a girl. Just chalk it up to fate and let go and accept it.
I did and I'm much happier now!
 
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honestly what ive noticed about parties is that most chicks arent after the dude grabbin all the attention doin backflips and making everyone laugh. Sure they love him for his entertainment value, but inbetween the clownish behavior they are peeping at the suave guy chillin on the sidelines socializing with whoever comes his way.
 
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Okay here's your problem:

You're the clown that all the girls think is funny.
What you need to become is the guy who can socialize.


honestly what ive noticed about parties is that most chicks arent after the dude grabbin all the attention doin backflips and making everyone laugh. Sure they love him for his entertainment value, but inbetween the clownish behavior they are peeping at the suave guy chillin on the sidelines socializing with whoever comes his way.
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Julian is right on.

I've tried both methods... and i've only had success with the suave approach.

You just look like a dumbass... When you're the suave guy you can actually point out those guys and laugh at them and the girl will agree with you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yeah there is always some guy at a party making people laugh by being the"life of the party." At the same time they are laughing at these guys because they are embarrassing themselves.
 
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Stop putting a lampshade over your head and making farting noises with your armpits. OK, I don't know what you're doing exactly, but you should approach a specific girl, introduce yourself and get a convo started. Start working the kino, instead of the comedy act. Offer a girl a massage and/or whisper in her ear at a party instead of pulling a rabbit out of your azz.

Keep working the kino and convo, keep escalating and get as far as you can get until you get a 'no', a lay, or a slap across the face. Read the Gunwitch Method. Good luck and stop acting like a dork at parties. Act like a DJ, bro.
 
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