"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm a Daddy (I think)!!!

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well.. that pretty much sums it up. I'm in Melborune right now (having the time of my freakin life BTW) with my GF, and she popped the news on me 2 days ago on her Bday. she told me it was the "best BDay present I could hvae given her"

She didn't want to tell me because she didn't know how i would react.. Honestly... I'm pumped!!!

however iwth that said.. the DJ part of me is making sure it's actually MINE.. but i'm not going to ruin a perfectly good vacation on that now.. i have ample time for that when I get back stateside.

I even think it was one of thoose things I was subconciously doing.. you know how you slowly wing yourself from using condoms with someone? Then you "leave it in" a time or two... i should have saw it comin a mile away. not that i don't want it... but sitll, shoulda saw it comin.

I'll keep you guys posted. Very interesting last month to say the least.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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congrats ...for ruining your life!

btw: How old are you BB?
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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congrats, glad you're happy
 
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thanks. I didn't even think I 'd be this happy. I mean i like kids and all.. but I mean.. I'm me. I can't wait to find out (well first.. verity it's mine)if it's a boy or a girl. will keep you guys posted
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Whoa dude....not to rain on the parade here, but how long have you been with this girl? Are you already that sure you want her to be the mother of your kids??? :eek:
 
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Congrats BB! Now be the best damn father you can be for your child!
 
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congratulations bro! good to se you being a real man and being happy starting a family and taking care of your kid...thats what its all about man..cant wait till i get there. im happy for you BB!!
 
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Massive congrats backy b.

Got any names in mind for the rascal?
 
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Shoot me a pm if you need any ideas on how to get rid of the broad, along with the little bundle of terror she carries in her belly.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Oh my, what will LMS think? :D

Anyhow, despite your age, it sounds like you can already afford this.

Have no doubt, the kids are a bottomless hole of cash, though most parents get by with less than you.
 
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Whoa dude....not to rain on the parade here, but how long have you been with this girl? Are you already that sure you want her to be the mother of your kids??? :eek:
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yes. even if we aren't together in the future, she is someone I can deal with.
 
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Oh my, what will LMS think? :D

Anyhow, despite your age, it sounds like you can already afford this.

Have no doubt, the kids are a bottomless hole of cash, though most parents get by with less than you.
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i'm not concerned about the finances.. it's not a rpboelm.. however I've been puttting "baby money" back for 2 years now.. i knew the day was coming sooner or later, just a matter of time.

I'm interested to see what this little rascal is going to look like. Of course i'm black. She's English. I'm 5'9. She's 5'7. we are both in excellent shape...

I'm pretty confident it's going to be a boy.. there has not been a female born on my dad's side of the family in the last 100 years. if that's not a stat for you I don't know what is.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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