"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm a 'boy toy'?

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This might be a stupid question... But, I saw that my girlfriend left a comment on her friends myspace saying "the boy toy is good, I love him so much." So what is that suppose to mean? I'm someone that she controls and would do anything for her? what do you guys think that means.
 

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B4IFURU18?

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I'd be very very conscientious if I were in your boots....

Really though, she's just calling you that, just like I call my women "sex slaves", doesn't mean I actually view them as slaves, just a name...

Don't worry bro, you're fine.
 

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Thats is a compliment in a sense. It basically means she really likes the sex you are giving her. What you would rather her be saying however is "My man is amazing, I love him so much".

If you want to, you could bring it up and say.. "I noticed on your myspace it says "the boy toy is good". I know i'm not some friggin boy toy, I'm your man, so you must be referring to somebody else. Are you cheating?""

This will set her off her rocker on the defense and within 24 hours check that myspace again!
 

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I don't think that's a bad thing, it honestly just sounds like she was trying to be funny with her friends.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lol read what pook says about boy toys's and this girl actually had the guts to say it to you, not good . You know when you say somethign sexual to a girl in a joking way but your serious thats probably what she was doing.
 

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Boy Toy implies that she's in control... she's like a puppet master amusing herself with her doll.
You're basically a piece of meat to her. How you interpret that into your reality is up to you, it can be good or bad.


boy toy -
A male used specifically by females for pleasure and fun when their husband or boy friend is not giving them enough attention or in case of break up or divorce.
 

B4IFURU18?

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LOL at you guys blowing this WAY out of proportion. I can't believe I'm posting twice in this thread, but the last two responses have compelled me to.

You're girlfriend probably doesn't actually think you're her boy toy. Perhaps she does. If you're a huge *****, let her control everything, and have no back bone, then I'm sure she thinks you're her boy toy.

If you're a man, have some control, and normal, she's joking...

For jtrain, and PTG, wtf are you guys thinking? Seriously.

She's JOKING!!!!!
 

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oh for frick sake. She's joking. And that is OK.

No need to overanalyse like that. It won't lead to a healthy relationship I can assure you.
 

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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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if your being yourself then w/e if you know you are not being yourself when your around her and trying to be somehtign that she finds attractive then you are her boy toy. But if you like being her boy toy then lol go ahead . Like what play the game said its up to you.
 

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From all the responses I believe she is just saying that jokingly. I feel I wear the pants in the relationship and I'm the dominant one. I have been being a little overly nice to her over the last week. But, nothing over the top.
 
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