I'm 38, she's 19.... and married.

[TheLadiesMan]

I'm not going the home wrecker route... but I think she is leaning towards it.

Damn, my life never has a dull moment.

 

[azanon]

Until most all women become married, there's no good reason to take that risk.

 

[decades]

sometimes you can see train wrecks before they actually happen. like here. that doesn't mean you can stop them.

 

[TheLadiesMan]

That's what I said to her about getting married @ 19.

I'm just going to stay out of this one... unless she approaches me about getting with her, then it's so on.

 

[Franky Four Fingers]

I got a situation where she's married (32/yrs old) and sniffing around me flirting / starting conversations / signals that she wants to have a fling. She's obviously not happy in her marriage.

In addition to me not wanting to be a home wrecker (how? hers must already be wrecked) I keep getting pictures in my mind of a pissed off husband holding a double barreled shotgun between my eyes.

Funny thing is shes been flirting for almost 2 months now and finally tells me she's married. She says her and her husband have more of an "arrangement" than a marriage and she doesn't have a wedding band on. I was very close to asking her out (easy lay here) BUT after finding this out just recently, nope. Too many less complicated, less risky situations in that age bracket to lose my peace of mind over this one. She should get divorced if she wants to see other guys.

Trouble.

 

[eyedea40]

I honestly don't know why guys who have skills are still routing through the dumpster for trash. Why would you want anything older than 25, after my last girlfriend, 20 y/o became the age limit. Secondly, there are TONS of hot single chicks out there... why invite problems into your life?

IMO you said it all, Girls ages 19-24 or even 25 do not have the same maturity level of Women 25+ most cases girls 19-24 are still sowing there wild oats most of them in college, I went away to college, I know what its all about. The place where I am in my life right now, If I am considering ANY LTR its with a 24+, the younger ones are great for hook ups and STR's.

 

[King of Action]

You are a DJ. think of ALL the women you WILL attract in the future. Younger, Older, other Races, Your age, and most of ALL Married women. In so many words, you keep learning, it's going to happen the REST OF YOUR LIFE..

Welcome to the DJ World.