TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
I'm not going the home wrecker route... but I think she is leaning towards it.
Damn, my life never has a dull moment.
Damn, my life never has a dull moment.
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
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I'm 38, she's 19.... and married.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
That's what I said to her about getting married @ 19. 
I'm just going to stay out of this one... unless she approaches me about getting with her, then it's so on.
I'm just going to stay out of this one... unless she approaches me about getting with her, then it's so on.
Franky Four Fingers
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I got a situation where she's married (32/yrs old) and sniffing around me flirting / starting conversations / signals that she wants to have a fling. She's obviously not happy in her marriage.
In addition to me not wanting to be a home wrecker (how? hers must already be wrecked) I keep getting pictures in my mind of a pissed off husband holding a double barreled shotgun between my eyes.
Funny thing is shes been flirting for almost 2 months now and finally tells me she's married. She says her and her husband have more of an "arrangement" than a marriage and she doesn't have a wedding band on. I was very close to asking her out (easy lay here) BUT after finding this out just recently, nope. Too many less complicated, less risky situations in that age bracket to lose my peace of mind over this one. She should get divorced if she wants to see other guys.
Trouble.
In addition to me not wanting to be a home wrecker (how? hers must already be wrecked) I keep getting pictures in my mind of a pissed off husband holding a double barreled shotgun between my eyes.
Funny thing is shes been flirting for almost 2 months now and finally tells me she's married. She says her and her husband have more of an "arrangement" than a marriage and she doesn't have a wedding band on. I was very close to asking her out (easy lay here) BUT after finding this out just recently, nope. Too many less complicated, less risky situations in that age bracket to lose my peace of mind over this one. She should get divorced if she wants to see other guys.
Trouble.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
fuzzx said:
IMO you said it all, Girls ages 19-24 or even 25 do not have the same maturity level of Women 25+ most cases girls 19-24 are still sowing there wild oats most of them in college, I went away to college, I know what its all about. The place where I am in my life right now, If I am considering ANY LTR its with a 24+, the younger ones are great for hook ups and STR's.
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You are a DJ. think of ALL the women you WILL attract in the future. Younger, Older, other Races, Your age, and most of ALL Married women. In so many words, you keep learning, it's going to happen the REST OF YOUR LIFE..
Welcome to the DJ World.
Welcome to the DJ World.