TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
I'm not going the home wrecker route... but I think she is leaning towards it.
Damn, my life never has a dull moment.
Damn, my life never has a dull moment.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I'm 38, she's 19.... and married.
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
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I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
That's what I said to her about getting married @ 19. 
I'm just going to stay out of this one... unless she approaches me about getting with her, then it's so on.
I'm just going to stay out of this one... unless she approaches me about getting with her, then it's so on.
Franky Four Fingers
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I got a situation where she's married (32/yrs old) and sniffing around me flirting / starting conversations / signals that she wants to have a fling. She's obviously not happy in her marriage.
In addition to me not wanting to be a home wrecker (how? hers must already be wrecked) I keep getting pictures in my mind of a pissed off husband holding a double barreled shotgun between my eyes.
Funny thing is shes been flirting for almost 2 months now and finally tells me she's married. She says her and her husband have more of an "arrangement" than a marriage and she doesn't have a wedding band on. I was very close to asking her out (easy lay here) BUT after finding this out just recently, nope. Too many less complicated, less risky situations in that age bracket to lose my peace of mind over this one. She should get divorced if she wants to see other guys.
Trouble.
In addition to me not wanting to be a home wrecker (how? hers must already be wrecked) I keep getting pictures in my mind of a pissed off husband holding a double barreled shotgun between my eyes.
Funny thing is shes been flirting for almost 2 months now and finally tells me she's married. She says her and her husband have more of an "arrangement" than a marriage and she doesn't have a wedding band on. I was very close to asking her out (easy lay here) BUT after finding this out just recently, nope. Too many less complicated, less risky situations in that age bracket to lose my peace of mind over this one. She should get divorced if she wants to see other guys.
Trouble.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
fuzzx said:
IMO you said it all, Girls ages 19-24 or even 25 do not have the same maturity level of Women 25+ most cases girls 19-24 are still sowing there wild oats most of them in college, I went away to college, I know what its all about. The place where I am in my life right now, If I am considering ANY LTR its with a 24+, the younger ones are great for hook ups and STR's.
King of Action
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You are a DJ. think of ALL the women you WILL attract in the future. Younger, Older, other Races, Your age, and most of ALL Married women. In so many words, you keep learning, it's going to happen the REST OF YOUR LIFE..
Welcome to the DJ World.
Welcome to the DJ World.