"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Im 34 and wear boxers.....

Michele l'Arcangelo

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Commando? What about when you're wearing nice slacks or whatever. I know your crack is clean... but just in case. I wouldn't want to leave any marks. I always use water... but still.

I wear boxer briefs... underarmour ones.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just a Shot Away

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Michele said:
I wouldn't want to leave any marks. I always use water... but still.
1) TMI.

2) Curiosity got the best of me. Where exactly do you get the water from when you use the restroom in public?
 

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Definitely boxer-briefs. I HATE boxers and how they get all bunched up and briefs are just way too up my ass all the time. Plus boxer-briefs look the best IMO
 

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Michele said:
Commando? What about when you're wearing nice slacks or whatever. I know your crack is clean... but just in case. I wouldn't want to leave any marks. I always use water... but still.

I wear boxer briefs... underarmour ones.

I don't drop a deuce unless I can shower right after. My sack and crack are always pristine.
 

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I hate full boxers becuase some of my jeans are italian and tight as they are.

and I can't go commando - how the hell do you guys do it, it just feels weird.

Boxer briefs here, love em.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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Just a Shot Away said:
1) TMI.

2) Curiosity got the best of me. Where exactly do you get the water from when you use the restroom in public?
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showpost.php?p=1558861&postcount=10

Michele said:
Sometimes when there's no one standing waiting for a stall, I grab a lot of paper towels, soak them thoroughly, take a stall and lay them on top of the plastic TP dispenser. When I'm done, I'd grab some TP, get it wet from the paper towels by pushing them together. That's how I get a moist TP.
 

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Totally commando for me - saves vital time and washing hehehe....

Tell a woman you are not wear any underwear always gets their imagination fired up...try it (even if you do have boxers on)
 

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Boxers since I was in college. Can't wear anything else, too much chafing. I've never ever had a woman make fun of them or comment on them in any negative way (other than the story below). In fact, one of the girls I've dated for years gets me ones with funny patterns on them like dogs, handcuffs, monkeys, fleece ones with snowflakes for winter, and other things, and chicks comment on them in positive ways. Sounds kind of corny but true.

Reminds me of the time about 10 years ago I was arrested for drunk in public and they took me to the station, strip searched me, took my belt and stuff in my pocket, then handed me my clothes back and walked me to my cell clad in only my underwear. I was wearing boxers that had cartoon ducks sporting innertubes, snorkels, fins and other assorted swim gear all over them. So I passed by this group of cops who were on break or something standing around chatting. One of the cops was a woman. She looked at me, whistled and yelled "Nice boxers, what's on 'em?" I said, "Ducks!" and she laughed.

True story.
 

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Havent worn underwear since college. My package thanks me.

Actually when I go to the gym i wear briefs for support.

Stopped wearing underwear as a bet from a chick I met in college.

It surprises most women. In a good way I would imagine cause it hasnt been an issue. It feels like it does turn them on if your out on a date and have had a couple of drinks - makes them start thinking.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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