"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I'm 25, so is it ok to date 19 year old girl?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Dude as long as she's 18 and you don't look like you don't belong with her then your fine. I plan to be dating the 18-22 year old girls for a long time. Or until I'm out of college.
BTW I look like I'm 23 or something so I blend in easily with the younger crowd.
There's some people that probably have a problem with it (the 18 and 19 year olds you steal her from), but I say f*ck 'em. Nothin' like having a young mind you can mold how you see fit
Maxtro
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
challenged
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i'm almost 32... i go for anything from 18 to 50 (if they're still hot)... doesn't matter dude... go for it
thatguyjamalx
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If theirs grass on the court, play ball...
Lord Shinra
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Dont see a problem, nor would I care if anyone else had one.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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jesusrules
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And rightly so. At your age you should be fvckin girls up to around 40, if they're still hot. Your gonna learn alot of stuff you can use on 18 year olds once your 30.jesusrules said:
Fuglydude
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If the maturity level between you guys is relatively similar, you're both happy and you like the potential that you guys have then what's stopping you?
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If not, flip 'er over and play in the mud. :crackup:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
SynTheUnscathed
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Canadien said:
Why in the world are you asking people on a message board whether you should date someone you have interest in...? No my man. Do you want her? Is she good enough for you? That should answer your question.
Although, after having gone through that mess, I know I won't personally date a girl that young again most likely. Even the ones who seem well adjusted or mature for their age are too much hassle for my taste. There's a lot that girls learn between 20 and 25 that I want a girl to have dealt with before I get to them. But if it floats your goat, give it a shot.
If its grass on the in-field play ball...
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
my girlfriend's best female friend is 21 and she is dating a 33 year old man.
comic_relief
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.