I'm 20 with virtually no sex drive

[DeMarco91]

So yea title says it all. I don't get myself off either or ever really have the desire to. I'll get morning wood like just a few times a month.

I thinks it's bit of a problem because I'd bet almost every other girl is gonna wanna get it on way more often than me and that type of mismatch is no good. I mean hell I've turned down a 3 some before just because of this.


Any other young guys with same problem or a solution? Thanks!

 

[Quiksilver]

Can you distinguish between psychological sex drive and biological sex drive?

Do you masturbate daily?

Do you have low self esteem and self confidence?

Do you get enough sleep?

Are you more than overweight (fat)?

Hows your diet?

Are you like your father?

What age was he when you were conceived?

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All those can affect sex drive, though I do not think at your age that diet should greatly influence sex drive unless its abysmal.

I turned down a threesome once, but only because I broke my jaw the week before and my face was puffed up like a chipmunk. The girls didn't know this and by the time I recovered the opportunity was gone.

Still haunts me.

 

[Paintballguy]

Low testosterone?

 

[DeMarco91]

Can you distinguish between psychological sex drive and biological sex drive?

How do you mean?

Do you masturbate daily?

No like a few times a month 1-3 but not a big urge or to anything.

Do you have low self esteem and self confidence?

I don't think so..

Do you get enough sleep?

I try to get at least 6-8 hours sleep. Always have a hard time falling asleep though.

Are you more than overweight (fat)?

No = 5'6 @ 142

Hows your diet?

I'd say better than the average American but right now it's kinda meh cause I don't have my blender back yet.

Are you like your father?

I try my best not to be. Guys a pushover.

What age was he when you were conceived?

Like 42

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A lot of people in my family have thyroid problems and I want to say that's it but I have this gut feeling it's not =/..

Dang, how'd you break your jaw?

 

[speed dawg]

Sounds like you have a problem that heavy weight lifiting and a high fat diet can cure. Look up diets for raising testosterone. Start working out and eating lots of fish, red meat, bacon, oysters, almonds, avocados, beans, etc. You'll see a big difference in sex drive.

 

[Lifeforce]

Aside from what the above people say try cutting the porn as well if you watch, that can help with sex drive. Overexposure to naked women in porn can play tricks on the mind.

Then as well, starting to lift or exercise in general is a good place to go.

 

[ThreeStorms]

Personally, I've never seen a young man, no matter whether if he does any exercising and eats healthy, or not, who didn't have either a lot of sex or a buttload of masturbation... but if you personally don't have a problem with it, why worry? For pick-ups, you can actually use it to your advantage if you're not horny all the time ...

 

[tyciol]

Aside from what the above people say try cutting the porn as well if you watch, that can help with sex drive. Overexposure to naked women in porn can play tricks on the mind.

That or try more extreme fetish kinds

I actually found if I watched things not overtly sexual but with subtle eroticism (classic movies are often good for this) it builds suspense a bit more.

 

[Kenny Powers]

I'm shocked no one has suggested the obvious solution of oh i don't know seeing a FVCKING DOCTOR!

I'm a bit of a hypochondriac but daamn, i dont fvck around when it comes to my family jewels and sex drive. This is something you can't be too embarrassed to talk about with a doctor. Procreation is basically the reason for existence. Get on this right away. You're probably fine, but why risk it?

Also are you on any medications? A lot of meds mess with your sex drive, especially those used to treat depression and anxiety.