"I'll call you". well its third day now

[ck1mark]

My position seems close to LJBF from last time with her.
I dont call her everyday, but i was clingy with her last visit. Been a wuss too. Looking to change all that, and start soon.
Now, after seing her she said ill call you (sunday night)
Its wednesday, im thinking tonight i should text her something

something like: Maybe you should buy me flowers, i dont wait around forever.

I NEED COUNSILING lol, give me some advice or is this cool?

 

[Ricky]

I would hold off.

Normally I'll call you isn't a good sign from any women. Thats not to say they won't finally call you because many times they might.

You can afford to wait a week or more

If she has e-mail at that point write her something ****y and funny.

 

[ScrewIt]

when a girl says they'll call it means they wont.

but hey, if a girl is truly interested, she usually wont say that, but will call when u least expect it.

 

[ck1mark]

yep not good sign. How about i text her

Had great dates this week, maybe you should wait a little longer to call me

 

[Fenderules]

just pretend you are not effected by it.

 

[I-am-someone]

Umm... text her?
I thought I read somewhere on here you should never write anything to a woman you're trying to date.
Reasons?
It makes you come across as a wimp and leaves behind a trail of evidence which might come back and bite you in the ass.

 

[Adrian]

Not a good sign at all. Don't text her anything. Fvck that. 3 fvcking nights dude and still no call? I'll take that as her not being interested. If she was interested she would have called you by now. I mean..... How busy can she be? Don't you even dare ask her "Why didn't you call?" Thats a no no. I wouldn't be surprised if she gave you a response such as "My aunt is dying in the hospital" or "Her pet got hit by a car". The best thing you can do now is to not care. The next time you see her treat her like you would anybody else. "Hello" and "Goodbye" is more than enough. I say "next". Don't waste your time with this one.

 

[I-am-someone]

For christ's sake, stop saying "next her"! Just do whatever you feel like doing, but do something!
If you're going to "next" every girl that isn't interested in you because you messed up the first time, then you're never going to get anywhere.
The advice "next her" should be kept to a minimum at all costs. I am seeing this being said everywhere on this board. It doesn't help him, it just leaves him frustrated and most of all it means he'll just miss another chance to practice on a girl.
I'm not saying I know what you should do, but I am saying that you should do something. Like I have said before, you yourself know the answer to this best. If you have read the DJ Bible, what do you think is the wisest solution to this problem you are currently faced with? What does your heart tell you to do? What do your balls tell you to do? You know what you want, all you need to do is get it, be it her or be it someone else.

 

[Fatality]

So let me get this straight, on this site alot of guys seems to preach that you should wait 3-5 days before you call a girl but if she waits that long that means she isn't interested?

 

[Ricky]

Fatality that is interesting. Maybe he's running into a rules girl who is doing something similar?

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Originally posted by Ricky
Fatality that is interesting. Maybe he's running into a rules girl who is doing something similar?

Possibly. Some girls may not want to come off looking slutty/desperate and for some this is a gray area.

 

[Jariel]

You're trying to change your clingy habits, so now would be a good time to start. You have to accept if she is interested she will call and if she's not she won't. If you text her, it won't make any difference.

I dated someone a week ago and heard nothing, but I'm talking to other women, lining up other dates and getting on with my life.

Always try to be cool and indifferent. For an example of how effective this can be, read my recent thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=65653

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

This isn't a problem when you talk to more than one woman at a time....

Be a man. Just say "NO" to One-itis...

 

[christz]

call in a day or two and act like nothing is wrong just talk like you normally would, and then cut off the conversation sorta mid way through.

i agree NEXT should only be used if the girl is just not budgeing at all. However if you call in a few and she picks up, that's obviously a step in the right direction

 

[Ladiesssman]

How about you play with her cl!t so to make her want to have sex with you. Thus, she will like you.

As like what Dillinger suggests.