"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'll admit it, I know what I really want...

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Do any of you guys want a girl that kisses your butt and worships the ground that you walk on? I kind of do.

Now the only times I've had that is when the girl is not attractive to me and stalker like.

And yes long term this as a strategy might not be too great, but after having a very bossy ex gf for a while, the pendulum must swing the other way.

This new girl is kind of awesome, but definitely very independent and doesn't necessarily worship the ground I walk on yet. LOL. She is always happy to see me and hang out with me though.

However I just got off the phone with another new girl who unfortunately lives halfway across the country but might be able to get me a job where she works, etc. She was so fricking happy to hear from me.

So sometimes I wonder what it would be like to have a girl totally wrapped around my finger. I know it would get old, but it would be cool.

At least this new girl I'm going out is willing to drive a ways to see me. My ex would rarely drive to meet me across town. I always had to pick her up.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Very good way of framing that.

You are right!

I hate girls that always have to argue about anywhere you choose to go, or what you do.
 
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If you had a girl that kissed your ass, you'd be bored in about a week. Ask me how I know this. Give me a fun girl, with attitude and intelligence and I'm all over it.
 
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Originally posted by MRomeo99
If you had a girl that kissed your ass, you'd be bored in about a week. Ask me how I know this. Give me a fun girl, with attitude and intelligence and I'm all over it.
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Agreed. Give me a woman who's a challenge even if we're in a relationship. You all know that it's the challenge that keeps things interesting if you're a guy, so why not require her to be the same?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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expanding on that theme...

Originally posted by disciple
I like women who have no problem being led by a strong, dominant man and who puts her man's interests first.
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I like men who like women who have no problem being led by a strong dominant man etc. etc., but who then goes off every now & then without making ME go with -- I don't care where: Paris, the corner bar, wherever -- because it's GREAT to have my free time. Even if it's just to listen to the silence. Or drink *too much* wine with the girls, or talk for 20 hours on the phone. Every girl I know digs that -- we like it when you come over, and we like it when you leave. Just being honest
 
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