"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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have any of you sensed a strong IL, and just asked "want to go makeout"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No, I've never said "wanna make out", but I've made out with chicks that I've only known for maybe 10 minutes or so several times at bars and clubs.
 
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whats an easy way to move into making out if you know theres high IL and your alone
 
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Yes, twice actually. Didn't use those exact words tho.

Disclaimer: These girls were total hoes.

In college I lived in a dorm that was between the nightspots and the other dorms/parking lots and girls walked by there all night long. I would go outside to smoke and they just strolled back home in a steady stream.

One time these two girls (they'd been clubbing) were walking back up the quad and were smacking each others asses. When they got close I said "Hey can I smack your ass?" They laughed and said "yeh" After I slaped both their ass one of them tackeled me and rolled me on top of her and told me to take her back to my room!!!! The other one just said that she would see her back at the room. This girl was a 7.

The second time I was outside smoking, and this cat came by and I was petting it and talking to it. This girl who was by herself, came up and said "you look lonely." I said " naw, just sleepy." Then she said "you shouldn't be sleeping by yourself (puppydog face)." Then I said "come in and fix that". Then I grabed her and and took her in. This chick was 7-7.5.
 
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