"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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IL straight to makeout

oElS

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have any of you sensed a strong IL, and just asked "want to go makeout"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So Many Ways

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No, I've never said "wanna make out", but I've made out with chicks that I've only known for maybe 10 minutes or so several times at bars and clubs.
 

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whats an easy way to move into making out if you know theres high IL and your alone
 

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Yes, twice actually. Didn't use those exact words tho.

Disclaimer: These girls were total hoes.

In college I lived in a dorm that was between the nightspots and the other dorms/parking lots and girls walked by there all night long. I would go outside to smoke and they just strolled back home in a steady stream.

One time these two girls (they'd been clubbing) were walking back up the quad and were smacking each others asses. When they got close I said "Hey can I smack your ass?" They laughed and said "yeh" After I slaped both their ass one of them tackeled me and rolled me on top of her and told me to take her back to my room!!!! The other one just said that she would see her back at the room. This girl was a 7.

The second time I was outside smoking, and this cat came by and I was petting it and talking to it. This girl who was by herself, came up and said "you look lonely." I said " naw, just sleepy." Then she said "you shouldn't be sleeping by yourself (puppydog face)." Then I said "come in and fix that". Then I grabed her and and took her in. This chick was 7-7.5.
 
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