"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hi I'm a new member. Apologize if my English is nod good. Let's shared your opinion about my story. ;)

I met her 2-3 months ago. Both me and her are single. She's older than me 3 years. At the first month she seems to like me (call me every other night without reason, chat) and sometime ask me to go out. But if we are in the group of her friends she seems to ignore me (She only talk with her friends but rarely talk or look at me) Although I have fun talking and have activities with her friends, I feel she ack to me different from other friends (guys)

I don't know how she thinks about me. The last week she said something like "Do you have something in yourmind? You can tell me everything because we're a friend." and "I feel lonely, I want a boyfriend" So I decide to ignore her (no call, no chat, No message) because I don't think she really interest in me. also she seems to ignore me as well.

Is this happened because she think I'm not deverlop our relation to next level? I just don't want to make it too fast. What should I do now? Ask her out again to test her interest, Or I should continue ignore her for a period of time to see her response, Or I should just keep her as a friend? :confused:
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't you have a mind of your own :rolleyes:, if you have morals and principles, stick to them (NO MATTER WHAT) if you don't develop some. Here is an article on the website to get you started: http://www.sosuave.com/articles/betheman.htm

Then, review the DJ Bible (top right corner)
 
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