"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ignore her...

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Hi I'm a new member. Apologize if my English is nod good. Let's shared your opinion about my story. ;)

I met her 2-3 months ago. Both me and her are single. She's older than me 3 years. At the first month she seems to like me (call me every other night without reason, chat) and sometime ask me to go out. But if we are in the group of her friends she seems to ignore me (She only talk with her friends but rarely talk or look at me) Although I have fun talking and have activities with her friends, I feel she ack to me different from other friends (guys)

I don't know how she thinks about me. The last week she said something like "Do you have something in yourmind? You can tell me everything because we're a friend." and "I feel lonely, I want a boyfriend" So I decide to ignore her (no call, no chat, No message) because I don't think she really interest in me. also she seems to ignore me as well.

Is this happened because she think I'm not deverlop our relation to next level? I just don't want to make it too fast. What should I do now? Ask her out again to test her interest, Or I should continue ignore her for a period of time to see her response, Or I should just keep her as a friend? :confused:
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Don't you have a mind of your own :rolleyes:, if you have morals and principles, stick to them (NO MATTER WHAT) if you don't develop some. Here is an article on the website to get you started: http://www.sosuave.com/articles/betheman.htm

Then, review the DJ Bible (top right corner)
 
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