"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ignore her...

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Hi I'm a new member. Apologize if my English is nod good. Let's shared your opinion about my story. ;)

I met her 2-3 months ago. Both me and her are single. She's older than me 3 years. At the first month she seems to like me (call me every other night without reason, chat) and sometime ask me to go out. But if we are in the group of her friends she seems to ignore me (She only talk with her friends but rarely talk or look at me) Although I have fun talking and have activities with her friends, I feel she ack to me different from other friends (guys)

I don't know how she thinks about me. The last week she said something like "Do you have something in yourmind? You can tell me everything because we're a friend." and "I feel lonely, I want a boyfriend" So I decide to ignore her (no call, no chat, No message) because I don't think she really interest in me. also she seems to ignore me as well.

Is this happened because she think I'm not deverlop our relation to next level? I just don't want to make it too fast. What should I do now? Ask her out again to test her interest, Or I should continue ignore her for a period of time to see her response, Or I should just keep her as a friend? :confused:
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don't you have a mind of your own :rolleyes:, if you have morals and principles, stick to them (NO MATTER WHAT) if you don't develop some. Here is an article on the website to get you started: http://www.sosuave.com/articles/betheman.htm

Then, review the DJ Bible (top right corner)
 
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