"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
If you're a father or plan to be one, meet your future daughter in law...
- Thread starter Atom Smasher
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Can you imagine what she must hear on a regular basis in order to be so passionate about these things? Even just to be thinking about these things in the first place...
I remember reading an article in the Mature Man section about women who wanted to get careers and develop them before they even thought about men, and they thought they could still have children with artificial insemination, and a man was always second to her career.Atom Smasher said:
She wrote an article several years later saying she messed up and should have married when she had the chance and she basically said she was regretful (as much as a woman can admit to being wrong anyways).
If this girl ends up the same way then lol.
I wonder if when people are younger there are a lot of male AFC's who can't hack it in the dating market but as everyone grows older, the women start to lose out because they are going to realize marriage isn't a security any more as men are becoming aware it is not as beneficial to them as it once was.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
why worry about US women at all? Theres MILLIONS of lovely, smart young girls in 3rd world nations who will do virtually ANYTHING to become US citizens. take advantage of your citizenship and get one of them. She is going to take SUPER good care of you, for at least 5 years, or back she goes. once she has her US citizenship, that might change, but there's still millions more where she came from. They don't CARE what you look like, what you know, how old you are, how big,strong you are, how much money you can make, etc.
Victory Unlimited
Master Don Juan
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0rbMHLDY1pA&feature=relmfu
Yeah, I'd say that this little girl is destined for loneliness unless someone with some sense can manage to get a hold of her and influence her to approach life in a more balanced way.
She's suffering from the same thing that a lot of adult, hyper-feminist females suffer from-----the faulty reasoning that results from sitting under too much teaching about "Independence" and too little teaching about "Interdependence".
All joking aside, this is truly a SAD state of affairs...
Ah, I see that the proliferation of Propaganda starts EARLY...
Yeah, I'd say that this little girl is destined for loneliness unless someone with some sense can manage to get a hold of her and influence her to approach life in a more balanced way.
She's suffering from the same thing that a lot of adult, hyper-feminist females suffer from-----the faulty reasoning that results from sitting under too much teaching about "Independence" and too little teaching about "Interdependence".
All joking aside, this is truly a SAD state of affairs...