You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I remember reading an article in the Mature Man section about women who wanted to get careers and develop them before they even thought about men, and they thought they could still have children with artificial insemination, and a man was always second to her career.Atom Smasher said:Can you imagine what she must hear on a regular basis in order to be so passionate about these things? Even just to be thinking about these things in the first place...
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Haha! Wow. Now that's how you learn a lesson, the hard and permanent way. She wasted her time and now she ended up with nothing.ArcBound said:I remember reading an article in the Mature Man section about women who wanted to get careers and develop them before they even thought about men, and they thought they could still have children with artificial insemination, and a man was always second to her career.
She wrote an article several years later saying she messed up and should have married when she had the chance and she basically said she was regretful (as much as a woman can admit to being wrong anyways).
Ah, I see that the proliferation of Propaganda starts EARLY...