"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
If you're a father or plan to be one, meet your future daughter in law...
- Thread starter Atom Smasher
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Can you imagine what she must hear on a regular basis in order to be so passionate about these things? Even just to be thinking about these things in the first place...
I remember reading an article in the Mature Man section about women who wanted to get careers and develop them before they even thought about men, and they thought they could still have children with artificial insemination, and a man was always second to her career.Atom Smasher said:
She wrote an article several years later saying she messed up and should have married when she had the chance and she basically said she was regretful (as much as a woman can admit to being wrong anyways).
If this girl ends up the same way then lol.
I wonder if when people are younger there are a lot of male AFC's who can't hack it in the dating market but as everyone grows older, the women start to lose out because they are going to realize marriage isn't a security any more as men are becoming aware it is not as beneficial to them as it once was.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
why worry about US women at all? Theres MILLIONS of lovely, smart young girls in 3rd world nations who will do virtually ANYTHING to become US citizens. take advantage of your citizenship and get one of them. She is going to take SUPER good care of you, for at least 5 years, or back she goes. once she has her US citizenship, that might change, but there's still millions more where she came from. They don't CARE what you look like, what you know, how old you are, how big,strong you are, how much money you can make, etc.
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Master Don Juan
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0rbMHLDY1pA&feature=relmfu
Yeah, I'd say that this little girl is destined for loneliness unless someone with some sense can manage to get a hold of her and influence her to approach life in a more balanced way.
She's suffering from the same thing that a lot of adult, hyper-feminist females suffer from-----the faulty reasoning that results from sitting under too much teaching about "Independence" and too little teaching about "Interdependence".
All joking aside, this is truly a SAD state of affairs...
Ah, I see that the proliferation of Propaganda starts EARLY...
Yeah, I'd say that this little girl is destined for loneliness unless someone with some sense can manage to get a hold of her and influence her to approach life in a more balanced way.
She's suffering from the same thing that a lot of adult, hyper-feminist females suffer from-----the faulty reasoning that results from sitting under too much teaching about "Independence" and too little teaching about "Interdependence".
All joking aside, this is truly a SAD state of affairs...