"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"If your life was a movie..."

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If your life was a movie, which movie would it be and what song would be your soundtrack?

I think that my life most mirrors the movie "Big Fish" because I have done so much crazy sh!t over the years that I tell tales and they seem to be false, but they are true stories.

Plus my life in the upcoming future is going to be even more insane.

The soundtrack would be Garth Brooks, "Standing Outside the Fire"

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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about a boy.

seriously if you guys know me im just like the dude in it. its kinda weird lol even my familly thinks im like the dude in it lol.

as far as song, thats tough i dont know. hmm.
 

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k3f1CbKzKNA

The Untouchables with Kevin Costner's character and the song that is playing in the background of the clip describing my life over the past few years.

So many deaths in my family and treacherous break ups have worn on me but I press on just like that character.

"Never stop fighting till the fight is done" is such a true quote and its said by Costner's character at the end of this movie.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sleeping Dictionary.

Id be an english teacher overseas teaching and fvcking the sh!t outta Jessica Alba.
 

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It used to be Superbad
now it's something like a toned down Platoon.
With no killing.
 
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